Giles, if you would like to get by in American society, then you are going to have to follow our traditions. You're the patriarch. You have to host the festivities, or it's all meaningless.

Buffy ,'Sleeper'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


lisah - May 17, 2023 2:13:49 pm PDT #22272 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, Vortex!!!


Gudanov - May 17, 2023 2:34:55 pm PDT #22273 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Happy Birthday, Vortex! Hope you have a great day!


Matt the Bruins fan - May 17, 2023 4:20:49 pm PDT #22274 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Happy Birthday Vortex!


Laura - May 18, 2023 5:48:47 am PDT #22275 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

It was in the 20s here last night! Still only 32. Our short visit to Otter Lake is going well. Going to my great nephew's coral concert tonight. (he's 13) Thinking about heading back tomorrow. Considering doing some visits on the trip south since it won't be as big a hurry as the trip north. My nephew and wife decided that we would have to take their bedroom during our stay because they couldn't visualize us sharing a double bed. They have a dog 1-1/2 times Skinner's size and they have been enjoying each other's company. This morning they were playing tug-o-war with a rope toy, which was soooo cute. Alas, I was too busy enjoying the show to remember to take a video. Next time!


Jesse - May 18, 2023 10:08:03 am PDT #22276 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Aw, lots of people recommending Jilli on this Ask A Manager post about how to transition to goth at the office: [link]


-t - May 18, 2023 11:05:10 am PDT #22277 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

As well they should! It does give me a warm glow


Toddson - May 18, 2023 12:13:19 pm PDT #22278 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Also shows good sense. I remember in her book, on the list of what the goth wardrobe needs, the first item is multiple lint rollers.


Jesse - May 18, 2023 12:25:31 pm PDT #22279 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I also enjoy that the letter-writer ends with a reference to black lipstick and a shaved head, and there are a few comments like, "well, if you present as masculine, the lipstick is going to be a bigger deal, but if you present as feminine, the shaved head would be the bigger deal, so....?"


Sheryl - May 18, 2023 3:21:08 pm PDT #22280 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Just got an estimate on the repairs to my car. They said it should be ready by June 2, depending on availability of parts. Oh, well...


brenda m - May 18, 2023 9:12:54 pm PDT #22281 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Oof. Is it drivable in the meantime?