A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


erikaj - Apr 13, 2023 2:54:54 pm PDT #21672 of 30000
Always Anti-fascist!

My father always hurt himself doing stuff like that.


Sheryl - Apr 13, 2023 3:39:53 pm PDT #21673 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Had my regular cleaning at the dentist this morning. Everything looks fine, so I go back in 6 months.I've been good about keeping up with my dental(and mental) health, but not so much with general health. I've finally gotten off my ass and put in a request for a physical with a new doctor. (My previous doctor went to a concierge practice that was way more expensive than I could afford.)


DavidS - Apr 13, 2023 7:30:11 pm PDT #21674 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

JZ and I are back in LA again for her latest infusion. This is the last one that will require an arduous 10 hour day at the hospital (as they measure the new drug's absorption into her system every couple hours).

After tomorrow the infusions will be regularl 3-4 hour affairs, and JZ can just come back to the hotel and crash.

This chemo (FOLFIRI) is very exhausting so she's been sleeping a lot, and we've had to learn to manage the new symptoms (way more nausea/puking). But we are getting a handle on it. (24/7 anti-nausea meds.)

I brought a ridiculous number of prescription drugs down on this trip. 12 bottles plus Lidocaine cream and Fenty patches. There's night time meds, morning meds, maintenance meds and experimental drugs. Most of it symptom management to keep the pain in check and her bowels regular.

Haven't got our TSA pre-check sorted yet but that will make a huge difference when we get it done. The worst part of the travel has been the cab ride from LAX to the hotel. Our driver today was very heavy on the braking so it was lurching and nauseating the whole way.

I've scouted out the surrounding area a bit and found some posh restaurants with affordable Happy Hours. So I managed to have two cocktails plus grilled asparagus for the price of one cocktail at the hotel bar.

On our next trip down I've lined up a couple of social visits, including one with Phil the Gambler (who lives not far away in Bel Air).

Feel free to ping JZ in the afternoon tomorrow as she'll just be sitting in a chair with her laptop and a stack of Terry Pratchett books.


Consuela - Apr 13, 2023 10:52:34 pm PDT #21675 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

Speaking of Pratchett, the podcast Imaginary Worlds did an episode on Discworld this last week!

Best of luck on the trip to LA this week, David & JZ!

This year my sister talked me into a weekday season pass at Bear Valley, which is just 40 minutes from her cabin in the mountains. Unfortunately, we only got 2 days of skiing in before the incredible winter storms came in, and came in, and came in. We were planning to spend 3 days skiing next week, but apparently Bear Valley closes for the season on Sunday!

So I am taking tomorrow off, and we are driving up tomorrow morning to at least ski all afternoon. And then we drive back to the Bay Area on Saturday morning, so we can spend the afternoon dress shopping with my nieces. We all need dresses for the wedding in June, after all...


Laura - Apr 14, 2023 8:45:37 am PDT #21676 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I'll have to look for that podcast.

I hope the weekend trip is smoother this week, JZ and Hec!

Just got tickets to see the Ft. Lauderdale Symphony perform Rachmaninoff's 3rd Piano Concerto this month. I have never seen it played live. This is without a doubt the one piece of music that I have played more than any other. I used to go to sleep to it nightly decades ago. When it comes up on my playlist I always end up repeating it. Don't know why it has always been my favorite, but I just love it. Anyway, apparently it is the composer's 150th birthday and they chose this one, just for me I am sure. They are also doing Bruckner’s Te Deum, which is in the whatever category for me. I'll sit through it. I am excited.


Laura - Apr 14, 2023 9:01:44 am PDT #21677 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Also, I don't know if you can read my local newspapers articles, but sad loss of art in one of the homes destroyed by the flooding. [link]

The Fort Lauderdale-based artist and puppeteer known for leading Florida’s longstanding Day of the Dead parade had just lost more than half of his handcrafted paper-mâché puppets to the murky floodwater that crept up nearly 4 feet in his artist studio.

He lives over near the park where I take Skinner downtown.


-t - Apr 14, 2023 9:05:56 am PDT #21678 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh, that is sad. I have been seeing news stories about all that and thinking of you, Laura. Glad you get to see your favorite piece of music soon!

Hoping JZ is having an easy if necessarily long day! Glad there is a lot of Pratchett to keep her company.


askye - Apr 14, 2023 12:45:34 pm PDT #21679 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Laura u was thinking about you and all that rain.

We leave for Florida tomorrow, where it hasn't been raining that much. I'm mostly packed. I have to triple check some things. There is a definite difference to our packing ... M said he was done and I looked over and it was just 3 shirts and some shorts. He said "we will have a washing machine so I don't have to take much". In the meantime time I'm looking at things and making sure I have something to wear every day plus something to wear fishing and pajamas and...

Then there is also the art stuff I plan to take.

The plan is to drive tomorrow, and ge4 I'm, then Sunday it supposed to rain so we will just chill and then Monday dad will come down for fishing ...possibly and visiting and that's all that is planned so far


Laura - Apr 14, 2023 12:59:37 pm PDT #21680 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I hope you have a delightful trip. Remember to relax.


Matt the Bruins fan - Apr 14, 2023 1:18:14 pm PDT #21681 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Today I received my THIRD gas bill for the month of April, complete with missing meter dates, unexplained extra charges (apparently there was a 6-day period for which the meter was read but no actual statement compiled), and a second and third initial sign-up fee added. Much of the math didn't add up, and after quite a long time on the phone with a CSR I think we got everything straightened out but the final amount I owed matched none of the totals on any of the paper and e-statements.

Now that daytime temperatures are rising above my thermostat setting my gas usage should plummet. But if billing in future months is as much of a boondoggle as the last three have been I'm going to buy tankless water heaters for my bathroom, kitchen, and laundry room and switch to space heaters, blankets, and feline heating pads before next winter.