I just think it's rather odd that a nation that prides itself on its virility should feel compelled to strap on forty pounds of protective gear just in order to play rugby.

Giles ,'Beneath You'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laga - Mar 28, 2023 3:21:11 pm PDT #21387 of 29995
You should know I'm a big deal in the Resistance.

I agree the eating off the same plate is way past "vibes" and into hostile environment territory


meara - Mar 28, 2023 3:53:38 pm PDT #21388 of 29995

No, I don’t feel safe going to the director or HR.

Oh, that makes way more sense. What an awkward situation. Yikes.


Sheryl - Mar 28, 2023 4:10:12 pm PDT #21389 of 29995
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Last night Gary and I went to the Springsteen concert. Great concert, even though our seats were behind the stage. Got home late, partly because the Metro was single-tracking on the line we were on.


Susan W. - Mar 28, 2023 6:20:21 pm PDT #21390 of 29995
Good Trouble and Righteous Fights

Yay to crafty new friends!

Boo to bosses giving off offputting inappropriate intimacy vibes!

Can I request tooth~ma? I went in this morning for a routine cleaning, only to discover that my lower right 6-year-molar, which has been my Problem Tooth for most of my life, either has tooth decay under the crown or is developing tooth resorption, which I didn't even know was a thing. (The tooth in question developed a really bad cavity when I was only 8, which I didn't mention to my parents until the pain became unbearable because the dentist they'd been taking me to had terrified me by covering my mouth and nose when I cried, or at least that's how I remember it. So at that point I got a new dentist, who did such a masterful job filling it that it lasted over 30 years despite the tooth being more filling than tooth. But eventually, about 10 years ago, my current dentist replaced the filling with a crown, and around 2019 I had to have a root canal. Which I thought meant there was nothing left to go wrong with it, but here we are.)

Anyway, my dentist can't tell whether it's decay or resorption from the x-rays, so she's going to remove the crown and take a look. If it's decay, they'll just clean it up and make a replacement crown. If resorption, the tooth is doomed, and I'm looking at either a bridge or an implant, probably the latter since we'd have to crown the teeth on either side to make a bridge, which we all agree would be a shame because they're beautifully healthy teeth. And all this starts tomorrow because they had a cancelation and could squeeze me in--otherwise it would probably have to wait till late April between my schedule and theirs, and I don't want to walk around with Schrodinger's Molar any longer than I have to.

I'm preparing myself for the resorption option, since this poor tooth is just so cursed. But I will take any ~ma on offer for a nice simple replacement crown.


Matt the Bruins fan - Mar 28, 2023 7:17:48 pm PDT #21391 of 29995
"You should never say bad things about the dead, only good… Joan Crawford is dead. Good.” —Bette Davis

Tooth~ma to you Susan!


DavidS - Mar 28, 2023 8:20:21 pm PDT #21392 of 29995
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Oy, Susan! Tooth fears and trauma abound. I'm sorry you have to go through that but weirdly I'm hoping for decay.

As I was leaving today M was like "have fun on your playdate," .. but I did have fun.

So great! You've really needed a friend away from work and your household.


Laura - Mar 29, 2023 4:49:43 am PDT #21393 of 29995
Our wings are not tired.

Tooth~ma, Susan. I'm glad they were able to get you in quickly.

Reminder that I really need to find a dentist. Ugh. Put it off forever.


Calli - Mar 29, 2023 4:50:17 am PDT #21394 of 29995
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

I’m glad you had fun, askye!

The the work stuff sounds less fun, flea. But they’re grownups, and I guess if they want to torpedo their careers they can do so. I hope you and your other coworkers don’t get caught in the crossfire.

Tooth~ma, Susan.

I’m pretty much transferred to my new position. Speaking of vibes, I feel that I vibe much better with my new(ish) manager. No plans to eat off his plate, though.


Steph L. - Mar 29, 2023 6:35:43 am PDT #21395 of 29995
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

Tooth~ma, Susan! Fingers crossed for a replacement crown!

The official head count of great-niecephews for Easter is 12, so Tim and his brothers decided they MUST have 300 eggs for the egg hunt; any less would be disappointing. So the 3 brothers are procuring/filling 100 eggs each to bring for Easter, and I am so goddamn excited about what I can put in the eggs (in addition to candy, of course). I've narrowed it down to temporary tattoos and small plastic cephalopods/dinosaurs/whatever interesting critter I can find. Although my joke about what to put in the eggs was "BEES!!! Fill 'em full of bees!", so I sort of want to find tiny plastic bees, or maybe a plush bee small enough to fit in a plastic egg.

It's *possible* I shouldn't be allowed to fill Easter eggs.


Dana - Mar 29, 2023 6:58:16 am PDT #21396 of 29995
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."

That is...so many eggs.