Way too risky.

Poor Tim. I hope the surgery is easy

Apparently surgery for scoliosis is not easy, because they have to do a shit-ton of repairing and aligning and, I don't know, welding? in the lower spine. The doctor said 3-5 days in the hospital (which Tim is a pro at by now) and then 3-6 months of recovery at home before he can return to work. The 3-6 months is mostly to protect his healing back; he should honestly be back to taking walks and such probably within the first month. I fucking well hope he can entertain himself after that initial month or so, because post-surgery caretaking and Covid quarantine have taught me that I will stab a bitch if he gets underfoot too much.

Oh damn, good luck to both of you!

Well, I’m glad it’s fixable, even if the recovery is long.

Yikes, that sounds like a lot. Good luck!

Oof, that sounds tough for Tim, but there is a bright side to getting past it. He's a hiking, woodsy, tramping about type.

Timelies all!

Good luck to Tim and to you, Steph.

Oh, man, that is a lot. All good vibes your and Tim's way.

Finally had my pie! Got a slice of blueberry pie with lunch, but the rest of my lunch was too filling so I figured I’d eat it when the inevitable mid afternoon munchies struck, but they did not! So I just had it for dinner. Yum.

So many good vibes to you and Tim! I am having ACL surgery on the 23rd, which is also a long recovery (nowhere near as intense as scoliosis surgery), but I'm so freaking tired and burned out at work that I'm looking forward to having nothing else to do but recover. That is so sad. I'll miss two days of school and then go right into spring break, so I'll have a full two weeks to get mobile. Crutches the first 1-2 weeks with GIANT LEG BRACE for 6+. Then PT to slowly work my way back to full mobility. Probably 6-ish months? But I thought of all of you the other day — I'm opting for the cadaver graft (thank you, donor I will never know), so my friend B has decided I'm going to have an Evil Knee that will run around on its own doing Evil Things like Lindsey and his Evil Hand. I pointed out that a knee does not have the same mobility as a hand and may have difficulty pulling the rest of me along, but we had a good time imagining all the Evil Things it might do.

Other than that, those who follow me on FB know our latest house drama is that our bedroom started flooding this year. Give SoCal enough water, and it will find creative and fun new ways to flood! We don't have flood insurance, so the repair is out of pocket. The good news is that we quote we got to excavate, reseal the foundation, and put in a French drain and pipe with surface drains to prevent the back of the house from flooding again is $5800. That's a ton of money we don't have, but it's SO much less than the money we've had to pour into our beloved money pit of a house that I'm feeling incredibly relieved. We will also need to get someone out to open the bedroom wall, mitigate mold, and reseal it — that will be an additional cost — but that's not worth thinking about until we get the flooding stopped.

Anyway, sorry I've been gone a lot. My dad had some health setbacks, and I've been back and forth to Florida twice in the last month on top of all the rest. Miss you all.