I don't care if it is an orgy of death, there's still such a thing as a napkin.

Willow ,'Lies My Parents Told Me'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2023 10:37:44 am PST #20791 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

So, I'm getting it re-set with a local jeweler, and I'm super happy with how it's going to look. Finally.

Yay! It's something you wear all the time (except when you don't), so hell yeah it should look how you want it to look!

September is our 10-year wedding anniversary (HOW. I mean, WTF, HOW.), and I'm thinking about adding stones to my engagement ring, which is a sapphire solitaire. I love the look of diamonds and sapphires and would like to get a smaller stone on both sides of the sapphire, but I have serious issues with the ethics of the diamond industry. So the new stones will have to be moissanite or lab-grown diamonds, which I am totally fine with.


NoiseDesign - Feb 23, 2023 11:37:26 am PST #20792 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

In crazy weather news, the upper part of the canyon where we live got dusted with snow this morning.


Steph L. - Feb 23, 2023 11:43:38 am PST #20793 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

ND, that seems like a sign of the apocalypse. Rain of toads, fire in the sky, snow in LA.


JenP - Feb 23, 2023 12:48:58 pm PST #20794 of 30000

I love the look of diamonds and sapphires and would like to get a smaller stone on both sides of the sapphire

I love that look/combo, too, yes. Ten years, though? When did that happen?


JenP - Feb 23, 2023 12:55:02 pm PST #20795 of 30000

Thank you for the update, Epic. There's a lot ahead, of course, but/and the fact that they think they can get everything is really heartening to hear. Sending all the get it scheduled, smooth operation and recovery and adjustment ~ma your way.


NoiseDesign - Feb 23, 2023 1:30:03 pm PST #20796 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

Epic, that's a lot coming up. I'm so glad to hear that they have a plan. Lots of ~ma headed your way.


lisah - Feb 23, 2023 1:30:31 pm PST #20797 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Sending you love, Epic!


P.M. Marc - Feb 23, 2023 2:40:29 pm PST #20798 of 30000
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear

All my love & ~ma, Epic.

So the new stones will have to be moissanite or lab-grown diamonds, which I am totally fine with.

If your jeweler will let you source your own stones vs. insisting you order from them, Ritani tends to have the best lab-grown diamond prices. What size (in mm) are you thinking for side stones, and what shape? (I would go with lab diamond over moissanite, though I do love moissanite for flashy flashy magpie bling. Lab diamond's just a nicer accent stone.)


Sheryl - Feb 23, 2023 3:11:24 pm PST #20799 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Lots of ~ma, Epic.


dcp - Feb 23, 2023 3:48:46 pm PST #20800 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

EpicTangent, thanks for the update. I'm glad to read that you are making progress with the plan. I hope experience and preparation makes the recovery easier. Onwards!