Faith: A kid. Angel's got a kid. Wesley: Connor. Faith: A teenage kid born last year. Wesley: I told you, he grew up in a hell dimension. Faith: Right. And what, Cordelia spent her last summer as… Wesley: A divine being. Faith: Uh-huh. Can I just ask--What the hell are you people doing?

'Why We Fight'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Consuela - Feb 10, 2023 11:37:08 am PST #20578 of 30000
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix

There is actually a blood test you can take that will confirm if you are officially in menopause. Follicle stimulating hormone, I believe.

Took my first run in the woods since the holidays! Lots of downed trees and washouts. And I was hella slow, but it was very nice.

Now I'ma go look for shoes I think.


sj - Feb 10, 2023 12:24:42 pm PST #20579 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I have no idea where I stand wrt menopause, peri or otherwise. How do you even know?

If you've always had regular periods and then they become wonky (lasting a long time, being longer apart and then suddenly shorter apart etc) that's considered peri


sj - Feb 10, 2023 12:45:30 pm PST #20580 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

ltc's STAR assessment, which I think is some sort of verbal standardized test for the younger kids, results came in today, and she is in the 98th percentile in Reading and Language skills, which I guess shouldn't be surprising since she has a book in front of her face nearly all the time these days, usually a graphic novel.


Cass - Feb 10, 2023 1:07:46 pm PST #20581 of 30000
Bob's learned to live with tragedy, but he knows that this tragedy is one that won't ever leave him or get better.

Yay, ltg!

I have no idea where I stand wrt menopause, peri or otherwise. How do you even know?

If you've always had regular periods and then they become wonky (lasting a long time, being longer apart and then suddenly shorter apart etc) that's considered peri

Mine went from wonky to 28 days consistent as heck. Also they got super heavy.

I have the implant currently. I'd skipped two periods (not sequentially) and both times I was in pregnant scare mode. So non-hormonal birth control went off the table. Hopefully when we remove the implant in four years, I'll actually be in menopause.


-t - Feb 10, 2023 1:50:45 pm PST #20582 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Dang. Went to pick up lunch and on the way back saw a grass fire a mile or so fro my house. It hadn't been there when I left and I am just hearing sirens now, so it must have started recently. It's the other side of the railroad tracks from me so I feel like the immediate danger is still pretty low, but yikes.


-t - Feb 10, 2023 2:23:29 pm PST #20583 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

My handy dandy Watch Duty app shows the fire as "Monitoring-Information Only" and I haven't eard more sirens, so I think this is actually a zero alarm fire and may already be out


brenda m - Feb 10, 2023 2:34:12 pm PST #20584 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

That’s a relief. No fires California!


-t - Feb 10, 2023 2:49:59 pm PST #20585 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It was some unexpected excitement for February! Driving along peacefully, seeing a column of black smoke and trying to guess where it is, deciding it's way off to the south, actually realizing that is close enough to the road that I can see flames and getting home before the fire trucks even arrive. Very weird. But ultimately fine. I can't even see smoke anymore, although I can smell it. There are still vernal pools in the fields so I doubt it ever had much chance of spreading.


Sheryl - Feb 10, 2023 3:00:41 pm PST #20586 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Haven't had hot flashes, but definitely having weird cycle length/duration, and heavy flow. I'll be 55 in April, and I am tired of all this.


askye - Feb 10, 2023 3:06:51 pm PST #20587 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

My periods started getting super regular around the time I turned 40. I haven't been using a period tracker but when I was the time between would shorten for a few months , then I'd have like 4 extra days and then they'd shorten again and then be a few days "late" but the time decreasing over all. I think through that whole time I went from over 40 days to right around 26 days before they started getting further apart again.

For awhile I had hot flashes but then I haven't but I'm also hot most of the time anyway so it's hard to figure out. I may give that supplement a try and see if it helps.

This time my body played a horrid trick on me I had 3 very light days and I thought I was done but that was just some weird prologue because I had kinda heavy for another 4 days.