A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jan 18, 2023 8:59:03 am PST #20013 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

You can clock in and do email at home but not on the bus? That sick time lunch time thing makes no sense. The lurkers do not support this timekeeping system in email, Sophia's employers!


Sophia Brooks - Jan 18, 2023 9:07:21 am PST #20014 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Well, we will see about the home thing. Since I can work from home flexibly, I thought I would give it a try. It seems like a better sell if I get asked about it. I think my boss is OK with whatever I do, but she can't come out and say it with the literature I was given by HR.


-t - Jan 18, 2023 9:08:26 am PST #20015 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Huh. My work does this gym subsidy thing where you document you have visited your gym 25 times in a quarter and they give you $100 (or what you paid for the gym if it was less than $100, at least that's what they used to say) and they just announced that now these reimbursements will be in the form of an Amazon gift card, not checks or direct deposit like they have always been. Weird! And somehow makes me less motivated to do it.


dcp - Jan 18, 2023 9:25:47 am PST #20016 of 30000
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

reimbursements will be in the form of an Amazon gift card, not checks or direct deposit

They may be playing accounting/withholding/reporting games.

It's worthwhile to get confirmation whether the reimbursements are getting included in your W-2 income or not, because that affects both the withholding amount and whether you have to report the reimbursement separately on your tax return.

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-t - Jan 18, 2023 9:40:49 am PST #20017 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

They were treated as reimbursed expenses rather than compensation previously. And maybe that was technically wrong? I mean, for my purposes it doesn't make much difference (especially since I haven't actually been getting the subsidy, though who knows maybe this quarter I will manage it) as if my cat food subscription comes off a gift card instead of out of my checking account that's $100 more in my checking account, right? Feels less like I am getting some of the money I spent on my gym membership back and more like I'm being bribed to go the gym, though. And now that I've written that out maybe that is too subtle a difference to actually even exist.


Gudanov - Jan 18, 2023 10:30:21 am PST #20018 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Sorry about the hassle Sophia. Sounds like a pain.

Tonight I need to walk the dogs, go to the Pharmacy, move our new dryer from the garage to the basement and install it, do laundry, add salt to the water softener, replace the furnace filter, cook dinner, and do dishes. Not sure I can make it all happen.


Gudanov - Jan 18, 2023 10:34:34 am PST #20019 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

Really need to do some shoveling too. Oh and bring in the mail and put out the garbage and recycling.


Gudanov - Jan 18, 2023 10:34:52 am PST #20020 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

May have to work late too.


Gudanov - Jan 18, 2023 10:35:15 am PST #20021 of 30000
Coding and Sleeping

I'm tired.


-t - Jan 18, 2023 10:42:32 am PST #20022 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That sounds like a lot, Gud. I'm tired just reading it