I’m so glad the meds are helping and JZ is still able to read. I couldn’t read when I had Covid either.

Covid was just awful in the way it made my brain all foggy and tired.

There is no tv... apparently M's mom missed one of her 3 payments with her previous affirm purchase. Which is disappointing for M....M's mom was like "if you put it in your name I'll pay it for you every month" but M has wisely decided not to go with that option.

And in small things that bother me for some reason- they've been home for awhile now but M's mom still has her coat and hat on, and her purse crossbody and is walking around. She does that a lot and it just...bugs me and I don't know why. Maybe because visually it says "I'm getting ready to leave" when I know she isn't. Plus it just looks uncomfortable.

Of course I'm the person who immediately takes off my shoes as soon as I come in and when I come home from work I take off my bra and switch into comfy around the house clothes.

Apparently the fireworks are at 8:45 so I'll be able to watch them before heading the bro's place. Traffic will be horrific, but I'll just plan on doing the slow crawl.

Yay ordinary day!

It was my sister’s 51st birthday yesterday and she and my niece came down to my parents’ on Wednesday and I joined yesterday after work. I told her I didn’t get her anything when I got here (this is a conversation we have on pretty much every birthday of either of ours going back and forth) but then we realized we didn’t have ice cream to have with her cake so I DoorDashed a bunch of treats for NYE and the ice cream so that was her gift. So we have declared the official gift of 51st birthdays robe dairy and artichokes.

Now lazing about a bit waiting for my niece to get up so we can have breakfast, then I will dash home to feed the cat and come back before traffic gets to hairy. Our plans for the evening or nebulous but we will be here celebrating somehow or other and we have lots of snacks and champagne so it will be fine.

Huzzah for ordinary days!

My filing system these days is pretty much a couple of boxes where I toss everything that needs to be filed. Then, when we need a piece of paper to prove something or other, we frantically churn through the boxes until we find it. The sole exceptions are that I know EXACTLY where my passport is, and I can easily put my hands on the physical file and PDF copies of all the paperwork around Alex's legal name change and new birth certificate. Which I guess says something about my priorities.

I am spending the day reading. I figured since I have a three-day weekend, I could dedicate one day to my Kindle.

M has wisely decided not to go with that option

Good for him!

Yay for ordinary days in the new chez mayhem!!

Susan how old is Alex now? Sorry but he will forever be 3 years old to me! Funny how time works. (And your priorities make sense to me!)

I’m up at my cabin with my sestra, her husband, their 13 yo, and her (our) brother. It’s rained all day every day and it’s been bliss. I’ve been in California now for nearly two weeks and can say that even with shingles, it’s been the best, fullest trip back home since I moved to the east coast. I’ve had trips here before that had highlights (like the time Suela and Kristin and ND joined me for a weekend here and we hiked around the Yosemite valley - that was a highlight of 2021 for sure!), but this two weeks has been restorative in a way I didn’t expect. I guess I’m really relieved to finally be homesick for California after nearly three years of feeling like I didn’t really belong anywhere (including here). I’m sure it also helps that this is the first Christmas I wasn’t completely alone since 2019.

I got to see at least one friend or family member a day on this trip, with no days being over-scheduled or over-loaded. I’m sure that has a lot to do with the success as well.

I am supposed to fly home tonight on the red eye but I’m tempted to switch my flight to tomorrow to properly ring the new year in tonight. The drawback is that I’d be a higher tier with my airline status by completing this last flight in 2022, and would face way more traffic back to SFO tomorrow. Might be worth it. Must ponder. For now I’m sitting in my bed under the quilt made of Charlie’s flannel shirts, and it’s pounding glorious rain outside. I think I’ll go open the bubbly for a mimosa.

Happy New Year, everyone!!

That’s so lovely, javachik.

I need to go wrap presents for tonight’s friendmas/NYE party and then go pick up some last minute gifts to round some things out. And am trying to write a year end reflection but everything is a bit foggy (like the weather today).

I am here to report: we had an ordinary day.

Hooray!

Between helpless concern for family/friends/co-workers and trying to stay on top of things so I'm not screwed later, this has been an exhausting week.

It turns out that when my grandmother was displaced due to the burst sprinkler pipe she also had covid and hadn't been out of the apartment for two days. My uncle got her to the doctor on Monday for meds and she is much improved. She just moved into a smaller room at the same place until they can make a 1 bdrm available and her filing cabinet (with all her genealogy stuff) was unscathed. Most of her books got soaked, but they're replacable and I just sent her the Thursday Murder Club trilogy so she has something to read now.

My brother and SIL ended up with post-Christmas flu (I'm hoping my parents escaped that) and Wednesday I had to send two of my crew (including my assistant) home sick. I've been frantically trying to complete all the office/prep work for next week in case I have to be the one on stage with the crew the entire time.

Gilda (the cat) is doing better. The Tuesday evening dose of meds ended up mostly on my hand instead of in her mouth so I figured I'd see how the night went. She's been medication free since then and things seem good.

ION, Chicago is holding a snow plow naming contest. Any ideas?