Wash: Were I unwed, I would take you in a manly fashion. Kaylee: 'Cause I'm pretty? Wash: 'Cause you're pretty.

'Heart Of Gold'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JenP - Nov 14, 2022 8:37:10 am PST #18557 of 30000

Recovery ~ma to Skinner.

Ack, it's already 11:30a? This day is going too fast for where I should be by now work-wise).

Friendsgiving was fun, though it takes me longer to recover the house these days. Which is totally fine -- I don't care, and I build in fun breaks now!

It wasn't fun was finding

few mouse droppings in the silverware drawer... on down all four of the drawers in that sack.

Took everything out, cleaned the drawers, then washed All The Things in the dishwasher. I put peppermint oil in each drawer, even though I think it's probably bullshit that that deters them.

The cats are slacking, it seems.

Got in touch with a dear, old friend whom I ghosted while in a depressive state several years ago (like 10+)... then felt guilty about and shame spiraled into never reaching back out...

But then a friend I haven't seen since '86 but have known since third grade and I got together last week, and we were talking about her, so I got in touch.

She was happy to hear from me, and we're going to plan an in-person catch-up session. I still feel so bad about my behavior, even though I know why. Ugh.

Being a person is fraught.


Laura - Nov 14, 2022 9:07:46 am PST #18558 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Being a person is fraught indeed, but it is good to hear you were able to rekindle the friendship.

I hear you on the mouse capades. BTDT. It happens. Lazy ass kitties.


-t - Nov 14, 2022 9:18:11 am PST #18559 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Being a person is fraught.

Truer words. Way to go powering through, JenP!


JenP - Nov 14, 2022 9:37:28 am PST #18560 of 30000

Thanks, friends!


DavidS - Nov 14, 2022 9:44:15 am PST #18561 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Get better, Skinner! If you were a good doggie, you'd slip some of your meds to Laura so she could be lazy for a week.

Look at you being all emotionally well adjusted and grown up, JenP! Isn't it nice that your friend was happy to hear from you?


-t - Nov 14, 2022 11:49:55 am PST #18562 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It's open enrollment time. Considering switching from Kaiser to this EPO thing, would save $25/month in premiums monthly but would have to get used to a whole different network of service. Which, given I haven't seen my PCP, uh, ever (got assigned a new one during lockdown and have yet to have an in person appointment) and I don't have any recurring appointments and my only current prescription is for high blood pressure, maybe now would be a good time to switch? And then there's the whole FSA - I think only the transit option would really be useful for me right now and the max amount I could use is pretty low, not sure if it would make a difference to have it be pre-tax. And there's an option for pet insurance, which is new. Hm.


JenP - Nov 14, 2022 12:36:27 pm PST #18563 of 30000

Look at you being all emotionally well adjusted and grown up, JenP! Isn't it nice that your friend was happy to hear from you?

It was!

It's open enrollment time.

Same. I asked DH about deadlines this morning, so he sent me a link to their company's Zoom call on Wednesday at noon, ha! I think he appreciates having someone else to handle it... he hates this stuff.

Sounds like it would be a decent time to switch, -t.

We don't really have much choice (or at least, didn't last year); it's all BCBS, and then pick a tier. I actually have had the best luck getting drugs approved through Cigna -- though I'm off of the "special and cost as much as a Tesla every month" kind these days. But there are still some annoyances. Like, they won't pay for a prescribed probiotic. Eh, there are weird issues like that everywhere, I guess. Stupid health insurance.

OK, I need to finish one last project by 5p. Here I go.


Dana - Nov 14, 2022 12:38:39 pm PST #18564 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Shit, my MIL's cancer is back, and it's not good.


-t - Nov 14, 2022 12:40:39 pm PST #18565 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Dana. I'm sorry.


JenP - Nov 14, 2022 12:49:44 pm PST #18566 of 30000

Oh, I'm so sorry, Dana.