It's like, in the middle of all this, I'm paranoid that you'll think I don't like poetry.

Buffy ,'Empty Places'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Jul 03, 2022 6:48:07 am PDT #16063 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Happy birthday, sj! I hope your energy improves so you can enjoy the weekend to the fullest. May the year to come bring much health, love, and joy.


Jesse - Jul 03, 2022 8:26:16 am PDT #16064 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Happy birthday, sj! I hope your family is taking care of you this weekend.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jul 03, 2022 9:14:17 am PDT #16065 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Happy Birthday sj! Feel better soon.


askye - Jul 03, 2022 9:54:07 am PDT #16066 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Happy Birthday SJ.

Glad DH is doing better Laura.

I've been at work for 2.5 hours and I've had to clock out and call Matthew ..or actually his mom since Matthew probably had his phone in the other room and charging.

I covered at online pick up and it was a lot. And I started feeling bad and I'm clocked out and waiting for Matthew and his mom to get here so he can drive me home.

So that sucks.


lisah - Jul 03, 2022 10:52:29 am PDT #16067 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

Happy birthday, sj!!!

I'm sorry, askye. That sucks. I wish you could find another job. I feel like you'd be great at online customer support.


Sheryl - Jul 03, 2022 1:30:14 pm PDT #16068 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy birthday sj!

Had some major thunderstorms last night, so we didn't see any fireworks. Could hear some from our house, but it was still raining hard, is I don't know how that worked.


askye - Jul 03, 2022 3:46:11 pm PDT #16069 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

lisah I think right now anything I do would be really hard and exhausting. I only had to deal with maybe 6 customers but they all kind of came at once and trying to go through all the steps was draining. Plus before that I had been working on organizing some racks that was mentally fatiguing as well.

I do want to look at something different but right now I need to just do what I can while my brain is healing.

I'm pretty sure right after the concussion at work I forced myself through worse feelings but I'm trying not to push myself too hard. I know I need to but not too hard. Today I did take a break and I felt better but as soon as I was trying to do stuff it just went down hill again. It started to feel more like disassociation and I've learned when that happens and I can't stay focused all it's time to stop.


sj - Jul 03, 2022 5:10:31 pm PDT #16070 of 30000
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I have had a cosmo and a lemontini and I’m more than a little tipsy.


Tom Scola - Jul 03, 2022 5:14:30 pm PDT #16071 of 30000
Mr. Scola’s wardrobe by Botany 500

Happy Birthday, sj.

I’ve been battling apathy for, like, the past 2+ years. Today I somehow managed to find the motivation to clean my apartment. While it’s a huge improvement over the recent status quo, it’s even still kind of gross in here. It’s kind of disheartening.


Emily - Jul 03, 2022 5:18:38 pm PDT #16072 of 30000
"In the equation E = mc⬧, c⬧ is a pretty big honking number." - Scola

sj, I highly approve of your alcoholic choices. High flavor and alcohol content to match.

I am taking some community college courses and getting mad on a regular basis. I'm a big fan of community colleges in general but MAN I've got some issues with some of these pedagogical choices. I know it's a) summer and b) asynchronous online but you can't scold your students halfway through the semester for not responding appropriately to your discussion questions when you NEVER TOLD THEM HOW! Or, well, you can. But you shouldn't. Also of course the research project which asks us to do kinds of analyses that are never discussed in the textbook. And the part where the only instruction provided is the textbook and the hourlong recorded lectures in which she reads from the slides that go with the textbook for, as far as I can tell, the very first time.