Numfar! Do the dance of joy.

Elder ,'Power Play'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


JZ - Feb 15, 2022 4:56:56 pm PST #13077 of 30000
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.

That was really brave of you, askye, especially in the face of giant what-ifs and anxiety and dread.


Laura - Feb 15, 2022 5:05:34 pm PST #13078 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Health~ma for the Zmayhem clan! I'm fairly isolated and careful, but DH is out and about every day so I am grateful that we have dodged it so far. I know too many people who have done things right and still got infected.


askye - Feb 15, 2022 5:46:20 pm PST #13079 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

JZ, I'm finally getting to the point where I have to be brave and can't put off avoiding being scared.


JenP - Feb 15, 2022 5:52:39 pm PST #13080 of 30000

That's hard, askye. That is a lot of change to manage/think about. Good for you for addressing it.


askye - Feb 15, 2022 6:03:27 pm PST #13081 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

Thanks. His mom kind of apologized, well she said she was sorry if she talked harshly to me but that she wasn't going to apologize to M. I told her I accepted her apology , the other thing was between her and M and that if she wants or needs my help she will have to ask politely and give me some notice or let me wind down what I'm doing because I won't drop everything. Which she seemed to accept . Now I just have to follow through.


-t - Feb 15, 2022 6:23:45 pm PST #13082 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Good for you, askye. That can’t have been easy.


brenda m - Feb 15, 2022 7:18:41 pm PST #13083 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

Good for you askye.

So delighted for the Zmayhem! Um, about the house, not the Covid. It’s a wonderful house, and after fighting so hard to keep SF home I’m glad to see you getting something with so much character, and that will open up options for Emmett and Matilda.


JenP - Feb 16, 2022 3:36:11 am PST #13084 of 30000

Sleep study achieved. Results in a week.

Now that I'm home, bacon reward.


Laura - Feb 16, 2022 5:39:41 am PST #13085 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Mmmm, bacon!

Well done, askye. People around me aren't allowed to mistreat me and for the most part they know that or figure it out immediately. People around me mistreating each other makes me very anxious so I usually have to remove myself.

Looks like Judi will be released to rehab today. Her mobility and oxygen level isn't good enough to go home. Assuming the release I'll go back home and come back when she goes home to help with the transition. My brother can do fine with Rehab visits and fetching her stuff from her house and cat feeding.


msbelle - Feb 16, 2022 6:23:56 am PST #13086 of 30000
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

So many hugs to people. Sj and Steph, I am so sorry for your losses.

Askye, as hard as it is, you deserve to make yourself and happiness a priority.

Left work last night to a completely flat tire. Called roadside assistance and now have the donut spare on.

Today is wfh day and the garage door is getting fixed. Shockingly I have zero motivation to do actual work.

So, I’m choosing a low brain activity (actually two) that need to get done and I’m allowing myself to watch movies while doing them.