I'm just trying to tell you that we have nothing in common besides both of us liking your penis.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Jan 28, 2022 12:32:54 pm PST #12521 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Had to google the bridge collapse - sounds like no one was hurt too badly, hope that is true.

After looking at a billion potential Zoom backgrounds with myself in front of them all I definitely don't want to be on a Zoom call now. So that's that. I did keep some I may use randomly, though.


Toddson - Jan 28, 2022 12:49:21 pm PST #12522 of 30000
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I definitely don't want to be on a Zoom call now.

Did you ever? (unless the alternative was a face-to-face with someone terrible)


-t - Jan 28, 2022 12:53:38 pm PST #12523 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Well, no, you are right, I did not. But I was considering doing it anyway more before seeing myself so much?


brenda m - Jan 28, 2022 1:35:02 pm PST #12524 of 30000
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I just got the 15-year gift catalog thingy. I don’t think ours are as generous as some. But whatev. At 5 years I got a car emergency kit that I still have. At 10 a small handbag.

It’s honestly such a chore to go through the massive online catalog now that it’s outsourced to some gift company. I’d rather just have something standard, or an allowance to company swag, which is nice to have sometimes.


lisah - Jan 28, 2022 1:50:06 pm PST #12525 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I'm with msbelle, company gifts that aren't money or benefits or like vacation designated money are bullshit. Also, -t, have you been looking for a new job?401k matching is a pretty standard benefit.


Laura - Jan 28, 2022 1:58:39 pm PST #12526 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

I've worked here for over 30 years, but no catalog of gifts. Then again I am the one who would give me a gift so that could happen.

I have only been in a very small number of zoom meetings, and I generally dislike them even more than phone calls, and I hate phone calls. I am absolutely an email and text girl. We don't even want to discuss FaceTime. The worst.


-t - Jan 28, 2022 2:24:49 pm PST #12527 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I have not been. Not quite annoyed enough to overcome my dislike of looking for work.


Sheryl - Jan 28, 2022 2:32:34 pm PST #12528 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I got framed certificates to mark 10 years and 20 years at my workplace. Ah, well, government work.


EpicTangent - Jan 28, 2022 3:01:18 pm PST #12529 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

I got a knifeblock at 5 and a ring at 10 (both catalog items), then at 15 the glass dustcatcher that many of you probably "admired" when I posted my photo on FB. The dustcatcher was followed by a check (or possibly a direct deposit), which was, yes, very pleasant.


Sophia Brooks - Jan 28, 2022 3:54:52 pm PST #12530 of 30000
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

The only time I got one of those anniversary gift choices, I got jewelry that I could sell. All I want from a company is cash and benefits.

I did really like the InstantPot that I could select at 20 years. Probably because it came when I was going to buy an InstantPot AND in March 2020 AND I continue to use it constantly. But I guess that was basically money, because I just didn't have to spend mine on a thing I was aleady planning on buying.

The silver bowl was super dumb, and I think I just didn't select 10 or 15 years because there was nothing I wanted.

They also sent us a travel mug instead of the free dinner in March 2020, which was kind of humerous, because we were not traveling!