When you look back at this, in the three seconds it'll take you to turn to dust, I think you'll find the mistake was touching my stuff.

Buffy ,'Lessons'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Matt the Bruins fan - Nov 21, 2020 8:23:57 pm PST #108 of 29425
"You should never say bad things about the dead, only good… Joan Crawford is dead. Good.” —Bette Davis

Thanks again to Shir and Nilly for organizing the zoom get-together! Seeing everyone's smiling faces, even for the short time I was able to attend, was a balm to my soul.

For some reason I'd been thinking the day was completely unproductive. But looking back, today I:

• cooked myself a hot breakfast
• fed indoor and outdoor cats
• went to the drugstore for prescriptions and a get-well card for my aunt
• drove to the vet for cat food
• picked up groceries
• drove across town for street tacos and tamales
• visited my mom and solidified Thanksgiving plans
• gave her my spare container of chicken stock
• dropped off recycling
• washed a load of laundry
• washed dishes
• cleaned countertops
• watered plants
• (briefly) attended the online memorial, and
• cooked myself dinner, including using the oven to bake spanakopita

Not too shabby considering I also snuck in an afternoon nap.


Shir - Nov 21, 2020 10:02:25 pm PST #109 of 29425
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

That's quite a lot, Matt!

Volans, all the kitty~ma.

{{JZ}}

And thank you, all. It's been lovely. We'll arrange another Zoom thingy around Christmas/Hanukkah, with as many offsprings as timezones will allow.


chrismg - Nov 21, 2020 11:08:46 pm PST #110 of 29425
"...and then Legolas and the Hulk destroy the entire Greek army." - Penny Arcade

Thanks Shir and Nilly! Sorry I couldn't stick around for long.


beth b - Nov 22, 2020 12:35:35 am PST #111 of 29425
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!

I’m sorry I didn’t see the zoom event until just before it happened. But there was a big zoom event today to raise money for the local people n need. The 11th year. Looks like we did better than usual.

Thanksgiving may have been just us anyway. ( I am the one that has the most exposure because of work). However the library was going to open, but then we moved back. We were not ready to open and even as they tried to say we were opening the staff knew the numbers were going up , but our admin didn’t. So yay! No more exposure to strangers ( I am reasonably sure of the staff because there has only been one person that has had COVID and we know where it came from) but boooo! For higher numbers.


askye - Nov 22, 2020 4:28:48 am PST #112 of 29425
Thrive to spite them

I wasn't able to do the Zoom because of work but I was thinking about all of you.

I haven't had a lot of big family Thanksgiving in a long time. But except for when I was in Vermont I've been able to see my parents on Thanksgiving.

I have a dental appointment on Tuesday up in NC and I will see mom then.

M and his mom are still planning on going to his brother's tomorrow for Sunday dinner and Thursday for Thanksgiving. They don't know how many people will be there and I haven't been asking how many people have been at the Sunday dinners but I know it's going to be more than 10.

I've asked again for them not to go but they are. I won't go . M and his mom both know the risks , they read the news, but they don't want to stop going. I know M's brother and SiL don't believe covid is a big deal and I also know they have made M's mom feel so guilty for saying she wouldn't come that she is going

I've heard her on the phone saying "I'm 65 years old, I smoke, that's high risk. It could kill me" and then I guess they tell her she is over reacting.

They also go over to his sister's and she also doesn't believe it's a big deal "and if I die then I die but I'm not going to stop seeing my momma or living my life ".

I am honestly surprised we don't have an outbreak at work and I keep expecting it. Especially as we get busier.


Fiona - Nov 22, 2020 5:25:29 am PST #113 of 29425

It really was lovely to see so many of you yesterday, some for the first time ever, others for the first time in years. (After a think, I'm pretty sure the last time I saw some Buffistas in the flesh was when Mr. Fiona and I met up with Trudy and Tom in NYC in early October 2001, when I was pregnant with B., i.e. the "baby" who is now a full-grown adult person). Let's do it again soon!

Am I alone in wanting to know how Jesse's Rum Babas went...? Particularly as the current season of GBBO did Babas last week.


amych - Nov 22, 2020 6:27:22 am PST #114 of 29425
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?

I had to miss the zoom but I want you all to know that I love you fiercely, and more so because after all this time we have this habit of finding and gathering the group. Buffistas are my buddy system.


Jesse - Nov 22, 2020 7:00:20 am PST #115 of 29425
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Am I alone in wanting to know how Jesse's Rum Babas went...? Particularly as the current season of GBBO did Babas last week.

That is why I made them! And they look and smell delicious, but are on the menu for tonight's dinner, so I will report back. I made half of this recipe: [link]


JenP - Nov 22, 2020 7:13:16 am PST #116 of 29425

Oh! I had no idea what a baba was. I thought you said babka. Those look yum.

Speaking of yum and recipes, this one looks good, but it's the story (short) that makes me totally want to try it - posted on Post Secret, apparently a secret family recipe of the poster, whose "petty, vindictive aunts" shouldn't be keeping it from the world. Love it. And then it got posted to reddit, ha. link


Sophia Brooks - Nov 22, 2020 7:55:33 am PST #117 of 29425
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Much kitty ma, Volans. I keep reading you as Vortex, so my brain doesn’t compute the kitty at first.

I loved seeing the faces and the kitties and the one peeg. And meara’s very large chicken nugget. I think having done ALL the zoom since March it makes me less shy and able to put my face on camera. Nilly and Fiona were absolutely right about how much we in the education world are on Zoom. I have more variety than they do, because I am not always teaching (and I teach things like how to use the online tools to teach, and frankly I am preferring Zoom for that, because I have the faculty share their screen and drive while I talk them through it, rather than just presenting or trying to find a computer lab), but my Thursdays start on Zoom at 8:30 am and end on zoom at 8:30 pm. In some ways teaching and theatre are both about that same engagement between audience and performer, and I can’t imagine how exhausting it is to not have that feedback. My presentations are usually five to eight people that I already know in person and I like them much more than endless meetings!