I am not...I am not the damsel in distress. I am not some case. I have to work this. I've lived in a cave for 5 years in a world where they killed my kind like cattle. I am not going to be cut down by some monster flu. I am better than that. What a wonder...how very scared I am.

Fred ,'A Hole in the World'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Nov 10, 2021 7:48:15 am PST #10521 of 30000
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

My neurologist's office has now sent two separate referrals to other neurologists, so I'm on hold to figure out which one he actually wants me to go to, and I've been on hold long enough for the call waiting to beep, me to answer that other call, and return to being on hold.


-t - Nov 10, 2021 8:20:36 am PST #10522 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That's a lot of being on hold, Dana.


askye - Nov 10, 2021 8:43:33 am PST #10523 of 30000
Thrive to spite them

That is a long time being on hold.

So i, or my family, could use some ~ma. My aunt Jane's partner had a heart attack on Sunday. This is the aunt who was my grandmother's main caregiver and who lost her only son. Jack was at her house when it happened and they got to the hospital and he had one artery 100% blocked but they put a stent in it and it's unblocked.

And then on mom's side of the family. My cousin Jay, who had the stroke...there is stuff with his ex wife and his son and trying to get living arrangements for various people. It's too complicated to go into detail. But some resolution to where mom doesn't have to go back to Florida...that is what I'm hoping for.


-t - Nov 10, 2021 9:58:21 am PST #10524 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

General~ma for your family, askye. That is a lot.

So, we were supposedly on the cusp of being operational again and sent out updates to customers yesterday telling them to get ready to work with us on sorting out all the messes that have accumulated and then this morning something didn't work as expected and we can't actually do anything still. Which doesn't exactly surprise me but I am frustrated with whoever keeps making the decision that the most optimistic timeline for recovery is what we should be telling everyone.


Laura - Nov 10, 2021 10:33:14 am PST #10525 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Sending ~ma all around for families and employers!


Sheryl - Nov 10, 2021 2:26:27 pm PST #10526 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Mr. S had his first COVID-19 shot today, and so far has no side effects.


Topic!Cindy - Nov 10, 2021 2:59:26 pm PST #10527 of 30000
What is even happening?

Oh, that must be a relief, Sheryl. I'm so glad to hear it.


Laura - Nov 10, 2021 3:58:46 pm PST #10528 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

Yay for protected kiddos!


Nora Deirdre - Nov 10, 2021 6:43:12 pm PST #10529 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Lovely to come on here and catch up with nice people not being horrible on the internet. Thanks, everyone!

Texas is still Texas-ing. Austin isn't hosting the annual Veteran's Day Parade due to Covid concerns and Governor Abbott is screaming about how Austin hates veterans. He's also mad that we shot down a city proposition that would mandate a certain number of police officers per capita. I voted down all state propositions just on principle.

I was in Boston for work last week and I just really miss it there. Though this particular trip was not great, because I forgot one of my brain medications and went into a hardcore withdrawal of anxiety on the third day of a 6 day trip.

A beer writing conference I went to a few times in the heyday of my beer writing career is happening in Austin this weekend, so I'm going. I'm dreading it but also am a little intrigued to see what's going on in that world.

Tom, I fired a psychiatrist who I didn't feel listened to me and insisted on weighing me at every session and he lost his goddamn mind about it. He left voicemails, sent a letter, called my therapist to explain the reasoning behind his decisions... all of which did not, oddly enough, inspire me to go running back to him.

Steph, I am incensed on your family's behalf. That is totally and disgustingly negligent. WTAF?!?!


Steph L. - Nov 10, 2021 6:54:45 pm PST #10530 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

I fired a psychiatrist who I didn't feel listened to me and insisted on weighing me at every session

SWEET FUCKING CHRIST, what?!?!?!?!? I hope by "fired" you mean "fired the whole man out of a goddamn cannon into a pool of hungry sharks."