You know what they say about payback? Well I'm the bitch.

Fred ,'Life of the Party'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Nov 08, 2021 7:46:01 am PST #10475 of 30000
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

In news that JZ and David will appreciate, I saw a story that there was a fire and everyone - three adsults, two children and one guinea pig - were safely evacuated. The story was illustrated with a photo of the guinea pig.

Save the piggies! Fortunately they're very portable.


-t - Nov 08, 2021 8:06:14 am PST #10476 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Tep! Best wishes for Tim's dad and all y'all. That is infuriating that you cannot trust the assisted living facility to actually take care of him


-t - Nov 08, 2021 8:06:43 am PST #10477 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

And Beverly - so glad your doctor is taking you seriously! I hope you can find some relief.


JenP - Nov 08, 2021 9:05:30 am PST #10478 of 30000

So much to catch up on.

Steph, livid on Tim's dad's behalf and the whole family. Jesus. Who doesn't think stroke when you see that? Completely untrained, non-healthcare adjacent people would still think, "Stroke," and call a fucking ambulance.

Yay for good doctors, and bringing people on board, finally, and cute guinea pigs, and vacations, and onerous tasking, and vaccinations, and boosters. Wishing feeling better to those in need of that, from stomach bugs to adjusting to new teachers, if only for a bit, and new nannies when that happens.

Tom, echoing all of what people have said, most recently, Jesse. Thinking a thousand good thoughts for you. At least a thousand.

Austin conference was great. Met neat people. Have no idea what Austin is like other than the Fairmont and the airport,, both of which were fine. Totally smooth travels. No complaints and glad to be home. We had a super quiet, no other people weekend, which was much needed and enjoyed.

Oh! Sorry to disappoint, but I did not go to the ecstatic dance and magic treats party. I was so exhausted by Wedneaday night, there was just no way. All I managed was ecstatically flopping onto the bed and the magic of room service.


Laura - Nov 08, 2021 9:28:38 am PST #10479 of 30000
Our wings are not tired.

There is indeed something to be said for ecstatically flopping onto the bed and magical room service.


Steph L. - Nov 08, 2021 9:40:01 am PST #10480 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Oh! Sorry to disappoint, but I did not go to the ecstatic dance and magic treats party.

I saw a Facebook notice that there's an ecstatic dance party twice a month in my neighborhood (100% UNsurprising), but I don't want to pay $20 to see what goes on.

It's at 10:30 in the morning on Sundays, and it's described as "All ages. Family friendly. Substance-free, shoe-free, judgment-free." I think I'd require some substances to actually ecstatically dance with strangers.


-t - Nov 08, 2021 9:56:32 am PST #10481 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

10:30 am ecstatic dance party is a little hard to imagine. I would need, at the very least, coffee for that.

We are maybe coming back online Wednesday although not everyone will have access immediately so that will be interesting. Outlet Sale probably moving to December or maybe being cancelled but almost definitely not starting Thursday. The tentative feeling that I even know what my job entails is almost entirely dissipated.


Steph L. - Nov 08, 2021 9:59:55 am PST #10482 of 30000
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

10:30 am ecstatic dance party is a little hard to imagine. I would need, at the very least, coffee for that.

It takes several glasses of wine to get me dancing at a wedding reception, so, yeah. And I'm not a morning person anyway.


Matt the Bruins fan - Nov 08, 2021 10:00:36 am PST #10483 of 30000
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I think I'd require substances to be judgement-free if the event is shoe-free.

Sorry about Tim's dad, Steph! Hoping for the docs to help him recover as much as is possible, and for the care facility to get their act together (whether or not he goes back to that particular one).


meara - Nov 08, 2021 11:04:41 am PST #10484 of 30000

I too thought Teppy was going to balk at the shoe-free part of it.

I took today off work (I’m on vacation the rest of the week and initially thought I’d fly out today, but instead tomorrow) and don’t know what to do. I took the dog for a short walk. I’m running laundry so I can pack. I slept in a bit. And now….hmm.