You all gonna be here when I wake up?

Mal ,'Out Of Gas'


Natter 77: I miss my friends. I miss my enemies. I miss the people I talked to every day.  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - Oct 21, 2021 1:28:44 pm PDT #10111 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Is the ecstatic dancing required? That *is* intriguing.


DebetEsse - Oct 21, 2021 1:34:38 pm PDT #10112 of 30000
Woe to the fucking wicked.

I believe that ecstatic dancing can't really share space with other activities. In the before times, there was a weekly aession at the local theatre. My impression was that it was a lot of close proximity to sweaty bodies. Since we have an over-abundance of hippies, the bodies in question tended to have an un-viking-like relationship to regular hygiene and bathing.


-t - Oct 21, 2021 1:46:48 pm PDT #10113 of 30000
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I guess I'm wondering if it is ok to wedge yourself into a corner and not dance if you don't feel moved to


EpicTangent - Oct 21, 2021 1:56:52 pm PDT #10114 of 30000
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Yeah, I really like to dance, but *ecstatic* dancing? That might be a lot to ask if you're not in the right brainspace.


dcp - Oct 21, 2021 2:37:16 pm PDT #10115 of 30000
Useta-could.

This made me chuckle. I haven't come across this many examples before.

"I before e," (except when your foreign neighbor Keith received eight counterfeit beige sleighs from feisty caffeinated weightlifters). Weird, right?


NoiseDesign - Oct 21, 2021 2:41:18 pm PDT #10116 of 30000
Our wings are not tired

I've been a quite a few cruises. Almost all of them working on designing shows and things like that, but still I think around 60 of them total. Mostly all around the Caribbean, but also an Atlantic Crossing, the Mediterranean Sea, Alaska, and the Mexican Riviera. I enjoy them. It's basically a giant floating luxury resort and you wake up in a new city each day. You really only have enough time in each port to get a sampler sized taste of it though. I think that's the biggest drawback. I find cruises are especially nice when you are going with a group of friends since there's lot of ways you can get together, but also do things that suit each individual.


Sheryl - Oct 21, 2021 3:57:49 pm PDT #10117 of 30000
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

I’ve been on two cruises in my life. One with my parents when I was in college.(basic Caribbean cruise) The other was a few years ago with Gary and Mr. S, in the western Caribbean.


lisah - Oct 21, 2021 4:00:54 pm PDT #10118 of 30000
Punishingly Intricate

I like the idea that I'm the sort of person who you'd think of doing a barge trip in France, meara! But, alas, we have not! My aunt and her husband did one of those river cruises in Germany a few years back and LOVED it. I would probably enjoy one of those but not one of those classic, ginormous ship cruises.


Jesse - Oct 21, 2021 4:23:24 pm PDT #10119 of 30000
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I find cruises are especially nice when you are going with a group of friends since there's lot of ways you can get together, but also do things that suit each individual.

Yes! I was kind of surprised to find I like both cruises and group tours. I like having other people plan for me and not having to figure stuff out, especially in a group.


Nora Deirdre - Oct 21, 2021 5:26:23 pm PDT #10120 of 30000
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Oh! I am going to Austin for business from 11/1-4, so that's a thing. I've been invited to a "house party with ecstatic dancing." I both don't think that's my jam and am SO curious. We'll see.

Oh man, that sounds so Austin. I live here, but I will also be out of town on business that week. I am intensely curious about the ecstatic dancing, lol.

I did a barge trip in the Bordeaux region in France in 2019 and it fucking SLAPPED. It was like the most luxurious, most service-oriented experience I've ever been involved with. It is also extremely expensive but if you have the cash it's worth it. (I was there for a press trip - it was worth the cost of the flight that I paid, but maybe not worth the week of misery in Bordeaux City and Paris that followed the perfect barge trip.)