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Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Dana - Jul 17, 2019 7:13:13 am PDT #9592 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Okay! I have dealt with all three of those things. Unemployment handled, prescription was sent in this morning, and I got snippy with the airline on Twitter, which is the only thing that's been productive so far.


-t - Jul 17, 2019 7:20:10 am PDT #9593 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Go you!


Jesse - Jul 17, 2019 7:30:49 am PDT #9594 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Check, check, check!!


meara - Jul 17, 2019 8:11:31 am PDT #9595 of 30019

Get it Dana! Yeah!!

I tried to make coffee and forgot I needed to dilute the iced coffee concentrate and couldn't figure out why it was so bitter and gross tasting. Eventually I realized and just poured the whole thing out. Bleh.


sj - Jul 17, 2019 9:02:37 am PDT #9596 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Have any of the parent here read/tried 1,2,3 Magic? ltc's pediatrician recommended it because her bad behavior at home is getting worse.


Jesse - Jul 17, 2019 9:06:56 am PDT #9597 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

sj, ltc is three, right? You may appreciate the SECOND letter in this column, and feel comforted by this piece of the answer:

For the life of me, I can't understand why "the terrible twos" is a widely recognized phenomenon, but you don't hear much about three outside of child development books, mommy blogs, and chats with parents. Especially considering that 3 is SO MUCH WORSE than 2. Three is the Donald Trump to 2's George W. Bush; both of them are hell, but one of them is certainly cuddlier.

There's nothing that can be done to totally change Alice's behavior, because she is 3, and 3-year olds are absolutely horrible a good percentage of the time.


sj - Jul 17, 2019 9:11:15 am PDT #9598 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Jesse, she'll be 4 in a month. My favorite is Colbert's saying that anyone who says terrible 2s has never met a 3 year old. 1,2,3 Magic seems to be more about retraining the parents rather than the kid which is probably what's needed.


Laura - Jul 17, 2019 9:17:40 am PDT #9599 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

I did use 123, and liked it a lot. It really helps when all authority figures are on the same page. It was popular when the boys were that age so his daycare workers also used it when I told them I did. Consistency is a good thing.


Laura - Jul 17, 2019 9:18:50 am PDT #9600 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

And yes, it is totally parent training, just like dog training is owner training. I found it very helpful.


Jessica - Jul 17, 2019 9:19:08 am PDT #9601 of 30019
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I vaguely remember 1,2,3,Magic but I don't think we ever used it as written. One tip that stuck with me from that age is to pick a number and count DOWN from it - that way you can't talk yourself into adding more chances.