So someone who is say ace and bi may fall in love with either men or woman, sans erotic feelings -- is that correct?

You got it. I've seen it described as asexual and biromantic.

Ha! I bet that's right. But with some kind of American accent.

yes, like Southern where the middle vowel is two syllables "Jay-an"

Skipped a bit. Cats got vaccinated this morning.

Long story short, it took the vet ten minutes with La Résistance to go from "try bach rescue remedy when you're moving this summer" to "here's an ACP tablet, get a good pair of welding gloves, and best of luck". This time we managed to vaccinate The Problematic Cat in just 40 minutes, using the usual squeeze cage. The bad news is that she definitely remembered it, so my room was not unsimilar to the Guernica painting for a while.

I'm feeling terrible about putting her through this every time.

That reminds me of Puck, which took a large towel, oven mitts, and two people to render claw clipped, with Much Yowling.

Luckily she had next to no persistent memory so after about 15 minutes she had no lingering sentiment, except perhaps to wonder why she wasn't sticking to the carpet as much.

I'm planning on taking the cats to Otter Lake with me for the summer. That will mean driving straight through because I don't want to have to deal with them and hotels. Still working out the logistics. If they do go with me then I'll take them to the vet up there. Means getting a carrier too, although they do have harnesses and leashes although I never tried to use them. Oh well, I have the rest of the month to figure it out.

Laura, I've found that when traveling with cats, sedatives are your friend. Sedatives for the cats, I mean.

It took three tries to get Bally to the vet for her vaccinations. We finally had to close all the doors and set out a hard sided carrier, then chase her around until she ran into the carrier. She was under anesthesia for the exam and vaccinations themselves. (I must admit, it was extremely cute, the way her tongue stuck out while she was under.)

Driving straight through seems like an awfully long drive! Yikes.

We should be able to make the trip in 24 hours. We stop every couple hours to stretch. I have a large crate that the dog uses as his home. I'd take out the dog's stuff and put the cat bed in the center, food and water on one side and the litter box on the other. They are piggies, but I don't really expect them to eat on the trip, particularly since they will be dosed with something. Still working it out, but I think in the bed of the truck with a tarp over the top for shade would work.

They are very chill cats. I leave the door open to the yard and they don't ever take off anywhere. They come when I call them. When their previous owner brought them to me she just had them both loose in the car for the 45 minute trip. Then carried them inside in her and her daughter's arms with no carriers. They were fine.

They could stay in Florida for the summer as my son would take care of them here, but I think they will like it in the woods. I just hope they don't catch and bring me home chipmunks! I would keep them inside a week or so before I let them out up there. I have a screened in porch where they could sit on the windowsills and watch the world go by, but I am not sure the screens would survive.

We'll see. Still working it out in my head.

Jesse, for years I always drove straight through. With 2 drivers it isn't bad. When I was younger I would drive straight through alone! The key is frequent stops, at least every two hours, less is I feel the need. A few minute walk around a rest area to stretch makes a big difference. One driver naps while the other drives, then switch.

I've found a summer home for the Buffista island/compound people. [link]

sj, I hope you feel better soon. Yay clothes, Dana!

There is very little that a pill will fix that is worth the drama and trauma of trying to pill my cat. Luckily he's been pretty healthy and well traveling for me so far. But he's getting older, so I foresee many a health-related tradeoff in our future.