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Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


-t - May 04, 2019 3:35:02 pm PDT #7475 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Wow, msbelle. I love the sound of that skirt! I'm sorry the whole experience was unfun. Bah.

Yay for feeling pretty, meara!

I am trying so hard not to buy more clothes. I have SO much, and honestly most of my clothes I really love although I keep changing sizes and a lot of it I just can't wear to work so I am trying to be super practical and have, like, a capsule work wardrobe? Which I thought I was all set for as if a month or so ago and was ready for a full on moratorium on clothes-buying but then we had a mini heatwave and I realized I needed some lighter weight work clothes, too. It's a struggle.


Allyson - May 04, 2019 3:40:30 pm PDT #7476 of 30019
Wait, is this real-world child support, where the money goes to buy food for the kids, or MRA fantasyland child support where the women just buy Ferraris and cocaine? -Jessica

Things are really bad at home. I'm trying to keep my shit together.


Zenkitty - May 04, 2019 3:41:34 pm PDT #7477 of 30019
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I love buying clothes and I hate trying them on. Nothing at all seems meant for a woman with big boobs, big butt, and a round belly, but still having definition at the waist. Apparently I'm meant to be wearing only muumuus.


Zenkitty - May 04, 2019 3:42:08 pm PDT #7478 of 30019
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Allyson, may things get stable again soon.


-t - May 04, 2019 3:49:53 pm PDT #7479 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Oh no, Allyson. I'm sorry to hear that. Keeping it together ~ma.


msbelle - May 04, 2019 3:55:19 pm PDT #7480 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

meara - I went to a Dillards clearance store.

Allyson at home in Boston or at home in LA?


Laura - May 04, 2019 4:36:46 pm PDT #7481 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

I'm so sorry, Allyson. From what I have gathered you must feel so helpless and frustrated. Sending much ~ma for things to resolve in a positive direction.


Jesse - May 05, 2019 3:30:02 am PDT #7482 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Best thoughts, Allyson.


sj - May 05, 2019 4:55:17 am PDT #7483 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I'm sorry, Allyson. Tons of ~ma.


Theodosia - May 05, 2019 5:02:29 am PDT #7484 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Good thoughts from here, too. I had a passenger who was talking about her foster daughter, who is now with her on an informal basis, because the "real mom" is involved with an excon who resents the time she'd be spending with her bright and joyful 9yo. Its heartbreaking to think someone would choose that, but it's clear it's the best for the kiddo, and that's why you do it.