That's great information, Maria. I do not think they are joint, so she might be OK
Oh, wow. This place looks great. Oh, I feel like a witch in a magic shop.
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Sophia Brooks - Mar 24, 2019 2:25:37 pm PDT #6258 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here
Maria - Mar 24, 2019 2:29:11 pm PDT #6259 of 30019
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Another thing to consider: if she doesn't have any credit cards on her own, she should open them up now, before his credit goes down the tubes. She benefits from his credit profile as an authorized user; once it tanks, it will drag hers down until she's taken off of the accounts.
Besides, he could cut her off from the cards immediately, so she should have her own just in case.
DebetEsse - Mar 24, 2019 2:48:45 pm PDT #6260 of 30019
Woe to the fucking wicked.
Sophia, I'm glad that at least one of the kids is clear-eyed enough to see his dad realistically. It'll still be traumatic, but it will hopefully be less of a shaken foundations situation, and will hopefully be a "how not to be in human relationships" model.
Sophia Brooks - Mar 24, 2019 3:44:37 pm PDT #6261 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here
Thanks. I am more worried about my god daughter because Aidan and my BFF and I slways seemed sympatico. She is in community college and living at home. My BFF says she has been really helpful these past few days. But my BFF is also so careful with her and thinks she can't live on her own, and I am like I am a super disaster mess, but I can actually live on my own and I think my niece can too!
Jesse - Mar 24, 2019 3:52:05 pm PDT #6262 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Oof, what a mess, Sophia. You're a good friend to worry about this stuff.
askye, I'm so sorry for your and your mom's loss.
meara - Mar 24, 2019 6:07:12 pm PDT #6263 of 30019
Yikes Sophia, what a mess. Best of luck to your friend.
And askye, that's so hard, your poor mom.
I am trying to tell myself I have allergies and not a cold. I didn't sleep amazing last night, but was OK during brunch, and on the way home was suddenly like "My god why am I SO SLEEPY and also muzzy-headed". And also sniffly. I took some allergy meds, and met up with a friend for the afternoon, but went home and slept for several hours rather than making muffins which was my plan. BOOO. But I have managed to drag myself to Trader Joe's and am eating food. Really hoping I'll feel better tomorrow?? No cold, do not want cold!
Shir - Mar 24, 2019 11:52:48 pm PDT #6264 of 30019
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Oh, Sophia. I am sorry.
Dana - Mar 25, 2019 2:46:10 am PDT #6265 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
No cold, meara. No cold!
Dana - Mar 25, 2019 3:07:47 am PDT #6266 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
oh my fucking god, I am up at 7AM for a software demo, and this is a fucking comedy of errors, except not funny.
Fred Pete - Mar 25, 2019 4:06:38 am PDT #6267 of 30019
Ann, that's a ferret.
Sophia, best wishes for your friend. There's a reason that it happened now.
Your friend might want to at least familiarize herself with the process for getting a protective order, just in case her husband decides to get ugly. I don't know NY procedures, but VA has an application form that you can fill out online, print, and take to the courthouse to get a temporary order.