Oh JZ. No platitudes, just endless open space for whatever you need to express, and caring for her and for you, and hugs, if they'll help.
I wanna hurt you, but I can't resist the sinister attraction of your cold and muscular body!
Buffybot ,'Dirty Girls'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Beverly - Jan 28, 2019 6:26:20 pm PST #4510 of 30019
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
JZ - Jan 28, 2019 6:30:45 pm PST #4511 of 30019
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Thank you. This is home. I just keep staggering around. I was good for almost nothing at work until I couldn't stand it any longer and called my mom, who of course also knew her forever ago, and then I was good for nothing at all.
(Has anyone here ever played around with The Sims? She was almost all the female voices of the first few iterations and co-created the language. If you've ever played in that world, you know her voice. Or some of her voices. She was so fucking absurdly gifted.)
Kate P. - Jan 28, 2019 6:34:53 pm PST #4512 of 30019
That's the pain / That cuts a straight line down through the heart / We call it love
Oh no, JZ. I'm so sorry. What a terrible and senseless loss.
Consuela - Jan 28, 2019 7:41:16 pm PST #4513 of 30019
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
Oh, my god, JZ, I'm so sorry. How awful for you and her family and friends. I'm so sorry.
aurelia - Jan 28, 2019 8:02:42 pm PST #4514 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.
Oh, JZ. I wish there were words that could help.
P.M. Marc - Jan 28, 2019 9:19:16 pm PST #4515 of 30019
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
(Has anyone here ever played around with The Sims? She was almost all the female voices of the first few iterations and co-created the language. If you've ever played in that world, you know her voice. Or some of her voices. She was so fucking absurdly gifted.)
Wow. (I play a lot of Sims.)
JZ, I'm so sorry.
amyth - Jan 28, 2019 9:41:06 pm PST #4516 of 30019
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
JZ, I'm so sorry. How awful.
P.M. Marc - Jan 28, 2019 10:10:37 pm PST #4517 of 30019
So come, my friends, be not afraid/We are so lightly here/It is in love that we are made; In love we disappear
Damn it, I wish I was actually active in the Sims community and not just a player. I keep thinking that someone letting someone in that community know about the GFM for her mom would help a lot.
Shir - Jan 28, 2019 10:59:48 pm PST #4518 of 30019
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
I am so sorry, JZ.
JZ - Jan 28, 2019 11:49:01 pm PST #4519 of 30019
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
Plei, I'm pretty sure word will get out to the community; I know she was still in touch with the language co-creators.
I keep thinking of things I was going to do and help her with and oh god we were supposed to get together over the holidays because she loved baking spice breads for the homeless people in the neighborhood and wanted me to come over and help and I didn't, I could have had one more visit in that tiny postage stamp kitchen drinking too much coffee and getting loopy and stupid and doing something worthwhile and I didn't.