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Xander ,'Chosen'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Laura - Aug 17, 2020 7:47:52 am PDT #24955 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

It's very helpful that she has supportive parents. eta: really to both Gud and Hec!


Gudanov - Aug 17, 2020 7:55:40 am PDT #24956 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping

Is she going to pursue HRT? That'll have a big effect.

Already started it.


Dana - Aug 17, 2020 8:00:10 am PDT #24957 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Hooray for supportive parents of all stripes.


DavidS - Aug 17, 2020 8:08:06 am PDT #24958 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

Already started it.

She's probably already discovered these, but have her check out the kind of HRT timelines people post on Pinterest where they show where they were at various stages. It's dramatic to see how much can change over a year or two.


Jesse - Aug 17, 2020 8:33:46 am PDT #24959 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

It's very helpful that she has supportive parents. eta: really to both Gud and Hec!

What she said!


Jessica - Aug 17, 2020 8:34:20 am PDT #24960 of 30019
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Buffista kids are so lucky to have Buffista parents.


meara - Aug 17, 2020 8:38:19 am PDT #24961 of 30019

Aww yay good parenting Gud! I'm glad your kid felt she could share this with you—that speaks to past good parenting as well as present good parenting in the good reaction!


-t - Aug 17, 2020 9:22:20 am PDT #24962 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Gah, poor Matilda. I was just wondering what her situation was re: school after seeing a bunch of First Day of School Online posts in my FB feed...


Toddson - Aug 17, 2020 9:38:16 am PDT #24963 of 30019
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

Everything about school seems to be screwed up this year. My best wishes to Matilda for a solution that works for her (and you).

Meanwhile, Randy Rainbow presents Kamala.


Theodosia - Aug 17, 2020 10:22:15 am PDT #24964 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Not that I'm wishing any bad on anyone, but I hope the Covid situation means that there's more than a usual amount of high school vacancy slots in the system this year, which means that Matilda will be settled successfully and soon.

Gud, that's a big deal indeed, and not one that gets lightly entered into, either! Do you have a parent group that you can go to for support and advice? That can be so helpful!

(Mostly I'm happy your daughter is going to be making a life where she's comfortable in her own skin. )