Happy birthday, erin_o! That does sound like an amazing meal I hope you get to enjoy it
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-t - Jul 18, 2020 10:32:54 am PDT #23715 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Laura - Jul 18, 2020 11:16:50 am PDT #23716 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
Super yum! Happy birthday!
Consuela - Jul 18, 2020 11:17:02 am PDT #23717 of 30019
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
Happy birthday!
I celebrated being on sort-of-vacation by crashing my mountain bike yesterday and making a stop at the ER to make sure I didn't sprain my wrist. Happily, I did not -- and the ER was quiet and safe.
Gud, I hope you will listen to some of the wise Buffistas here and do something to help yourself. Even if it's just a phone call? One phone call? You could run an errand and sit in the car (in the shade) and call someone from there.
We want you to be happy and your kids to be healthy and happy -- and even your wife, because she's clearly not happy either -- and yes it's work but think of everything you could gain from it? You're clearly not afraid of hard work, you work hard every day.
Please let someone help you. IT IS OKAY TO ASK FOR HELP. People are communal creatures, we need one another, and that is okay, it's part of our wiring.
Would you hire a professional if you had a plumbing problem? Or a medical issue? Yes! Hire a professional to help you deal with this, which is interfering with your life and your family's.
-t - Jul 18, 2020 11:27:20 am PDT #23718 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Welp, I mowed maybe a third of the yard, determined that the weeds are really too tall for the mower, hauled out the weed whacked, killed it right away, ordered a new and hopefully more powerful battery-powered weed whacked, grocery shopped, curbside picked up new weed whacked, assembled it and am now charging the battery. It's been a lot of effort to almost be productive.
DavidS - Jul 18, 2020 11:29:19 am PDT #23719 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."
That sounds very sweaty and rather frustrating, minus-t!
Laura - Jul 18, 2020 11:30:00 am PDT #23720 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
Ouch! Glad it was not a sprain or worse.
Thinking of getting a bike for up here. I have a bike in Florida, no speeds because no hills! But here I need something more.
I visited my sister last night and my nephew and his wife this morning. Told them about my frustrations over my sweet mountain solitude and serenity being destroyed by my efforts to help my son by bringing him here this summer. They were both sympathetic and understanding and told me that I was welcome to come to their homes any time day or night, whether they are home or not, to escape. Whether for adult conversation and company, or solitude. That helped.
-t - Jul 18, 2020 11:38:13 am PDT #23721 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Glad you didn't hurt yourself too badly, Consuela. Enjoy getting away!
-t - Jul 18, 2020 11:39:53 am PDT #23722 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
That sounds very sweaty and rather frustrating, minus-t!
Yes, well, hence the plans to just mulch the whole thing. That will be a lot of work also but I won't have to do it all again every couple of weeks! I hope.
Tom Scola - Jul 18, 2020 1:15:03 pm PDT #23723 of 30019
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Since the pandemic started, it seems like I've spent the bulk of my time doing dishes, yet dirty dishes pile up in my sink until there are no clean dishes left in my apartment. How is this possible?
Laura - Jul 18, 2020 1:21:17 pm PDT #23724 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
Not eating out! It is a burden. I just finished doing a bunch of dishes, again.
Although I have to say I got take out last night and was not comfortable at all. There was separation at the bar - two single individuals and then 2 couples. They were all 6' or more apart so they WERE YELLING at each other to converse. No masks of course. People wore them when they walked in, but once they got food and drink they took them off. The owner's granddaughter (maybe 15) was walking in and out of the building, in and out of the kitchen, and I never saw her wear a mask. In NY they have to buy food to get drinks so the bar menu was things like 10 fries for a buck, 1 chicken finger for a buck and so forth. I won't be going back.