Wesley: And how does your kind define love? Demon: Same as all bodies. Same as everywheres. Love is sacrifice.

'The Girl in Question'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DavidS - Apr 10, 2020 9:54:16 am PDT #19614 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

We're all dressed up for the funeral. Matilda is wearing her black Doc Martens because her Papou gave them to her.

I don't have any black pants and you know what? During a pandemic you can't just go out and buy them.


Katerina Bee - Apr 10, 2020 10:59:21 am PDT #19615 of 30019
Herding cats for fun

I'm sure no one will object to the fashion faux pas if you wear blue jeans.

Thinking many good thoughts to your family today.


Theodosia - Apr 10, 2020 11:12:19 am PDT #19616 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

The medical team tested nearly all the residents (~90ish plus the carers who were present in their rooms) before they ran out of test kits, so they will be back on Monday to test the staff.

Even if I tested negative today, there's no guarantee I wouldn't come down with it next week. But at least we'll have a baseline now that testing is finally available.

I was talking with one of the residents, she's got 20% of regular lung function and pretty much expects that she's going to die if she gets it, and is doing her utmost, including staying in her room, washing down anything that comes into it, et cetera.

I stopped by the liquor store special for her, and picked up a four-pack of Sutter Home wine. Not exactly drinking her way through the crisis, but if if the equivalent of two glasses of wine per little bottle gets her to sleep OK, I'm all for it.


Sheryl - Apr 10, 2020 12:02:30 pm PDT #19617 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

They have altered the schedule at work again to only have two people per day in the lab. Which means I'm only going in to work two days next week. Still supposed to work from home, however much I can accomplish with Mr. S around.


-t - Apr 10, 2020 1:05:22 pm PDT #19618 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Matilda is wearing her black Doc Martens because her Papou gave them to her.

Oh, this hit me in the feels

I hope you have gray or any dark pants, Hec, but if not no one will care

I discovered that Postmates will deliver Walgreens and ordered a bunch of stuff. Got 4 things out of probably a dozen ordered, but those were oatmeal, Diet Coke, and 2 types of chocolate so I feel like I did pretty well! Been spending my work-holiday (every year it seems weird to me to get Good Friday off, this year more so, but I will take it!) watching One Dsy at a Time and making a dent in my dishwashing backlog.


-t - Apr 10, 2020 6:25:19 pm PDT #19619 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

It's way too quiet in here


DavidS - Apr 10, 2020 6:32:54 pm PDT #19620 of 30019
"Look, son, if it's good enough for Shirley Bassey, it's good enough for you."

It's way too quiet in here

We're back from the funeral. This grief business is very exhausting.

On the one hand, it was a lovely ceremony in a beautiful cathedral, and it was sunny and bright when he was buried.

On the other hand, it was weird and strange that everybody had to stand far apart, no hugging or hand shaking, and only a meager handful of family and closest friends allowed to attend so they could be properly distanced.

Also, because he created a seamless trust, when JZ's dad died, she and her brothers now own his (quite big) business. Which is why we drove the company car home.

This is the Greek Orthodox Cathedral of the Ascension: [link]

While we were there JZ noted that she and her brothers had been baptized at the baptismal font there. And her parents were married there.

This is the cemetery: [link]


-t - Apr 10, 2020 6:36:42 pm PDT #19621 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{{all y'all}}} and adjustment~ma for on top of the grieving

I am relieved to not be posting into a void!


-t - Apr 10, 2020 6:40:11 pm PDT #19622 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Wow, that's gorgeous! I like to hear about that kind of continuity. My uncle's funeral was at a church that he helped to build (as a child so who knows how much he actually did, but still) and that was a comforting detail


sj - Apr 10, 2020 6:41:19 pm PDT #19623 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

{{{JZ and family}}} How's Matilda doing?