Reading everyone's stories, I'm almost glad that I am in complete isolation and can't be driven nuts by running out for a necessary errand and having to see twenty-dozen people being doofuses about distance.
Hugs to Katie Bee, and healing but stern behave-yourself~ma to her sister. I'm sorry for the added stress.
My father is in his third day of holding steady--ventilated, sedated, stable vital signs, no fever, lungs still being cleared, being turned regularly to avoid pressure sores and because regular stints of lying prone help aerate the lungs. The rest of my family is increasingly feeling wisps of hope, but I don't know--he's now been on the vent for 6 days and is no closer to being extubated, he has COPD and pulmonary hypertension as a result of it, he's incredibly medically fragile, and I'm afraid that he just won't get any better than this. He could go on forever ventilated and sedated... but he can't. If he doesn't actually improve at some point, not getting worse isn't going to be enough.
And I just found out that my baby brother's monthly chemo infusion this coming weekend has been canceled--the entire med center complex (in NYC) is overwhelmed with covid patients and there's neither staff nor space to safely manage the infusion patients. So they're just... telling him to stay inside even more than he already is, and wait a month. DO NOT LIKE.
Oh, JZ. So much ~ma to your family
Amy, your boss sounds like a piece of work. I hope by the time you read this, Sara and you are safe at home.
JZ, I hope things move from steady to improving for your father soon. I'm sorry about your brother's chemo.
Still no word on how my uncle is doing.
A neighbor in the building next to mine is assumed positive for COVID due to symptoms and likely exposure. She's a grocery store clerk. And now she and her husband are quarantined. There are confirmed cases in the apartment complex (such as it is—8 units, I think) next door, too.
This is not a virus to react to. Proactive is the way to go but without consistent leadership, we be fucked.
In other news, I have been drinking all day and Liv and I are baking a version of Prince Henry and Princess Megan's elderflower wedding cake.
he's now been on the vent for 6 days and is no closer to being extubated
I'm no authority of course, but according to my governor (boyfriend), COVID patients tend to have longer stints on vents - that's part of why they need so many more of them. My impression is that whereas 6 days with no closer to being extubated would normally be a fairly long stint, it's isn't in this circumstance.
Hang in there, JZ.
JZ, all my thoughts with you and yours, except for the thoughts with the rest of you and yours, and basically, infinite ~ma for us all, my darlings.
I've been coloring my own hair for the past 25 years, and it's pretty hard to screw up cutting with clippers. (DH already trims his own beard and shaves his head, so I know he has a steady hand.)
If it's good enough for the Brothers Evans (the self-cut with clippers, if you haven't seen Scott Evans documenting his quarantine buzzcut with a sibling assist), it's good enough for all!
All my thoughts, JZ. You are in a hard place but you have a lot of love around you.
I've been coloring my own hair for the past 25 years
My stylist posted something (funny) about the home color and cuts he'd be seeing after this pandemic fades. I told him to be glad I went to OverTone. Also to get back to doing yoga on his Facebook because I love having him as my yoga dude again. Especially since I didn't actually do any yoga after he stopped classes and I had surgery.
if you haven't seen Scott Evans documenting his quarantine buzzcut with a sibling assist
I have not seen this. And I have assigned blame already.
Do I need to send you the link?
(((((JZ and loved ones))))
{{{JZ}}} Continued ~ma for you and yours headed your way.
ltc slept in an hour late today. So, I was able to finish my first cup of tea and read for a bit before she woke up. As a result, I'm so much calmer this morning than I've been in forever.
