Don't you just love this party? Everything's so fancy, and there's some kind of hot cheese over there.

Kaylee ,'Shindig'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


amyparker - Mar 13, 2020 5:20:41 pm PDT #17684 of 30019
You've got friends to have good times with. When you need to share the trauma of a badly-written book with someone, that's when you go to family.

aurelia, hopefully they will follow the lead of the Seattle Symphony and give folks the choice of putting the tickets on account, exchanging them, donating them or offering a full refund.


aurelia - Mar 13, 2020 5:54:02 pm PDT #17685 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

At the moment it's "Please await further communication during the next 7-14 days regarding any postponed events. As soon as we receive updates regarding each event, you will be contacted via email regarding next steps." We'll see. Maybe they'll reschedule for sometime in the summer.


Maria - Mar 13, 2020 5:55:06 pm PDT #17686 of 30019
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Maria, I've been meaning to ask you how your relatives in Italy are doing?

Scared, but mostly fine. The ones that are up north took it seriously from the start, and the ones in the south are all ok. This is one time it pays to be from southern Italy, since the virus doesn't have a foothold there. The government locked down the whole country when it became evident that the southerners who lived in the north were leaving to go back home, so they stopped the literal invasion in its tracks. The hospital and health system south of Rome is in no way, shape, or form capable of dealing with even a 10th of the cases the north is handling. It would be catastrophic.

Everyone I know is following the government mandate to the letter. It's actually making for some amusing FB posts since they have nothing but time on their hands.


Cashmere - Mar 13, 2020 6:03:34 pm PDT #17687 of 30019
Now tagless for your comfort.

local tavern was full

Pretty sure taverns in Wisconsin will not close unless there is an order from the governor.

It's a good thing there are no Packer games.

Speaking of governor, Wisconsin schools are now officially closed until April 6--three weeks of Spring Break for us.

I'm worried the library will eventually shut down. Most of the libraries in our system are only cancelling programming and outreach.


sj - Mar 13, 2020 6:05:50 pm PDT #17688 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Maria, I'm glad to hear it. I'm not nearly as close with my relatives there, but the one cousin I follow on FB said they are doing well.


Hil R. - Mar 13, 2020 6:07:50 pm PDT #17689 of 30019
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

One of my students is from Italy, and she was telling me today that she's concerned about her family there. And now I'm concerned about where she's going to go now, since they're closing the dorms and she can't go home. I'm worried about the same thing for a bunch of other international students, too.


msbelle - Mar 13, 2020 6:22:13 pm PDT #17690 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Closing the dorms Is such a shit move. I hope something is set up for them.


lisah - Mar 13, 2020 6:22:31 pm PDT #17691 of 30019
Punishingly Intricate

Yeah, restaurants in the neighborhood were busy, if not Friday night busy, tonight. But some of them were closing early.


Steph L. - Mar 13, 2020 7:32:03 pm PDT #17692 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

The wedding tonight was lovely and went well. The facilities manager told the bride that all events booked there *after* tonight are going to be cancelled because of Covid-19. The bride and groom got SO lucky.

Then when we got home -- Jesus, you guys, I could not make this up if I tried -- one of our besties called to tell us her husband had a brain aneurysm rupture on Wednesday and he had emergency brain surgery yesterday to repair it. WHAT THE FUCK, 2020?!?!?!? WHAT THE FUCK.

The brain surgeon (Jesus Christ, our friend has a BRAIN SURGEON now) said that a significant percentage of people who survive the surgery end up having severe neurological deficits afterward. Our friend, however, is doing totally fine after surgery, as far as all the doctors and therapists can tell at this point (the speech therapist said he's talking fine for this point in his recovery and obviously understands what people are saying, so the part of his brain that processes speech is fine).

I...really can't process this right now. Like, we went from our friends' lovely wedding tonight and got home to find out that one of our best friends had fucking emergency brain surgery. My emotions are all over the goddamn map right now. The important part, absolutely, is that he seems to be doing fine, with no neurological deficits. But holy fucking shitballs. Goddamn brain surgery.

So I'll be awake for a while until the adrenaline leaves my system.

I just can't even with this year, y'all.


aurelia - Mar 13, 2020 7:36:01 pm PDT #17693 of 30019
All sorrows can be borne if you put them into a story. Tell me a story.

Yikes! Glad your bestie has a good brain surgeon.