Xander: I still don't get why we came here to get info about a killer snot monster. Giles: Because it's a killer snot monster from outer space. I did not say that.

'Never Leave Me'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Feb 11, 2020 12:47:01 pm PST #16250 of 30019
Thrive to spite them

I don't get any NO People Alone time at all any more. Or sometimes I manage a few hours.

What I really really want is a few nights, or hell just one night of just me and Matthew without his mom. When we go on vacation that is the only time we have like that. Sometimes she's gone for a few hours but that is it.

I miss truly alone no people time.


Sheryl - Feb 11, 2020 12:47:32 pm PST #16251 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Happy Birthday -t!


-t - Feb 11, 2020 12:50:26 pm PST #16252 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I'm up to 9 slides and I think I've run out of things to say. Hm. I guess I can go into more detail on a couple of things...

Had lunch at Denny's to take advantage of their free birthday meal. Got a Diet Coke to go with it and that cost $3.95! Now I know.


Matt the Bruins fan - Feb 11, 2020 12:53:37 pm PST #16253 of 30019
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

Aside from the obscene wealth inequity of being a billionaire, I think having money at that level causes more problems than it's worth on an individual level. For instance, while at my current income I can't travel as much as I'd like or quite afford to own my ideal home, I also don't have to worry about being kidnapped or that dates, friends, and relatives don't genuinely like me and are only interested in my money. I'll happily take that trade-off.


-t - Feb 11, 2020 1:25:42 pm PST #16254 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I heard a story on the radio sometime in the last month about Jeff Bezos phone being hacked by Saudi Arabia or something and at one point the reporter said something about Bezos and Crown Prince what's-his-name communicating with each other, of course, being fellow world leaders and all and I didn't know what part of that to be more offended and boggled by. It's all a big mess!


Theodosia - Feb 11, 2020 1:49:54 pm PST #16255 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

askye, I think you and Matthew need a standing Date Night arrangement. Is his Mom OK to stay home by herself?

Making time for Matthew to just spend with his Mom would also be a good thing, too, I bet. And does she like anything that you could do with/for her, like going to a Bingo Night or to thrift stores. (My aunt liked that, because nobody else on her side of the family liked just wandering through aisles looking at cheap possibilities.)

I bet Matt would like Date Night, especially if you could rotate it with some sports-type events he'd like, movies you'd like, stuff you'd like together.


meara - Feb 11, 2020 2:07:38 pm PST #16256 of 30019

Answer is in—bone scan showed plenty of inflammation, in the spot that was hurting as well as one other. We discussed—there's no obvious stress fracture or anything but removing the plate is pretty easy. Since the one isn't hurting we will probably leave it alone, but have outpatient surgery and get the other plate taken out and hope that helps. Yay! I feel glad I pushed for bone scan even though the X-ray looked fine! (Not that the doctor seemed like he doubted me—I like this guy much better—but I was worried I was being a hypochondriac)


Jesse - Feb 11, 2020 2:09:03 pm PST #16257 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Aside from the obscene wealth inequity of being a billionaire, I think having money at that level causes more problems than it's worth on an individual level.

In a document for the congregational meeting the other week, my minister wrote something like, "As the theologians are always saying, 'Mo' money, mo' problems.'" And then he footnoted it in Chicago style to the Biggie Smalls album! Hilarious.


Jesse - Feb 11, 2020 2:10:36 pm PST #16258 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

Yay! I feel glad I pushed for bone scan even though the X-ray looked fine!

Yay! Someone at work was in a terrible car accident in December (she's still not back in the office), and I think her ankle is the main thing that got busted, so I feel terrible for her, knowing how bad ankles can be!


Steph L. - Feb 11, 2020 2:18:58 pm PST #16259 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

In a document for the congregational meeting the other week, my minister wrote something like, "As the theologians are always saying, 'Mo' money, mo' problems.'" And then he footnoted it in Chicago style to the Biggie Smalls album! Hilarious.

Your minister is AWESOME.