Oh guys, I am so upset for my poor husband. His best friend, who was the best man at our wedding, was shot and killed last night. He had moved to Jamaica after his father died. He was only going to be gone a month, but he ended up staying. He loved living in his fishing village and running his dad's convenience store. For years now I keep saying that we needed to go visit him, and we didn't find the time. Now he is gone. He came into his house after work and it was apparently being robbed and they shot him. DH is devastated. He almost called him last night because of basketball related stuff, and didn't. Now he wonders if he popped into mind at the same time.
Well, you'd better not be thinking what I think you're thinking, because my answer is the same as always — no threesomes unless it's boy-boy-girl. Or Charlize Theron.
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Laura - Jan 09, 2020 7:25:22 am PST #15395 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
msbelle - Jan 09, 2020 7:45:46 am PST #15396 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
oh no Laura - that is awful. Please give him all our love.
msbelle - Jan 09, 2020 7:46:20 am PST #15397 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Drew - I am so sorry for the wave of memories and grief.
Jesse - Jan 09, 2020 7:59:12 am PST #15398 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Oh, Laura, how awful. I'm so sad for B.
Dana - Jan 09, 2020 8:05:38 am PST #15399 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
Oh, Laura. I'm so sorry.
Laura - Jan 09, 2020 8:24:32 am PST #15400 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
His kids and most of his family are in Fort Lauderdale, but he lived with his mom in Jamaica. We don't know yet what plans are being made, but DH will go wherever. He was the first person he met when he moved to Fort Lauderdale when he was in high school. Sean walked up to DH and asked him if he played basketball. Then helped him get registered in school and became besties. They played together in HS and a number of men's leagues afterwards. He went to work for us before his dad died and he left for a calmer life in Jamaica.
Dana - Jan 09, 2020 9:06:59 am PST #15401 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
Dude was supposed to call me for a meeting at 1PM. Sigh. I love sitting and waiting for people.
Any luck getting in touch with Mac, msbelle?
Dana - Jan 09, 2020 9:11:44 am PST #15402 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.
Or possibly it was that my husband was on the phone, jesus christ. Did the guy try to call yet? No idea.
Theodosia - Jan 09, 2020 10:16:38 am PST #15403 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"
Laura, please give DH my sincerest condolences.
Last night my long-time long distance friend's husband died after a long decline with Alzheimer's, essentially getting to the point where he no longer remembered to breathe. Death was more of a release from suffering there than a sudden tragedy.
Laura - Jan 09, 2020 10:53:01 am PST #15404 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
I'm sorry, Theo. Loss is loss, but sometimes the pain is lessened by knowing it was time.