Wesley: And how does your kind define love? Demon: Same as all bodies. Same as everywheres. Love is sacrifice.

'The Girl in Question'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


Shir - Dec 23, 2019 1:02:10 am PST #14891 of 30019
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Looks like mom's operation went fine. She's in recovery now, I'm waiting to hear when she'll be released. Thanks for the ~ma, I appreciate it.


Sophia Brooks - Dec 23, 2019 1:47:38 am PST #14892 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Good news Shir!

I am finding myself really unmotivated to go to work today. Not actually work, but the travel part. I am considering working from home. But I feel like there are maybe things I have to do there before break. And I know I am so lucky to get break, but it is really my eleventy billion vacation days and the fact we are a school that allows me to take break. I am still losing about 2-3 weeks of vacation days untaken. I get five and carry five and it seems impossible to take 10 weeks.


Sophia Brooks - Dec 23, 2019 1:47:40 am PST #14893 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

Good news Shir!

I am finding myself really unmotivated to go to work today. Not actually work, but the travel part. I am considering working from home. But I feel like there are maybe things I have to do there before break. And I know I am so lucky to get break, but it is really my eleventy billion vacation days and the fact we are a school that allows me to take break. I am still losing about 2-3 weeks of vacation days untaken. I get five and carry five and it seems impossible to take 10 weeks.


-t - Dec 23, 2019 2:04:46 am PST #14894 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

That is a lot of vacation time. You should absolutely be using more of it! Put that planning mojo to work for yourself and put some time off in your calendar for 2020, at least 1 day/month


Calli - Dec 23, 2019 2:11:11 am PST #14895 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs

That's good, Shir.

I'm heading up to see family tomorrow. I love that I have a place in their lives, but I could live without ever seeing an airport in December ever again.


Jesse - Dec 23, 2019 2:49:50 am PST #14896 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

In talking to a coworker the other day, I made a New Year's Resolution to take more vacation, because I'm about to max out on carryover. So I have to take at least one week off a quarter, which should be doable!!


Sophia Brooks - Dec 23, 2019 2:59:59 am PST #14897 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I had a terrible job at the same uni which did not "let" me take vacation. So I came to this job, 15 years ago with 5 weeks. I actually get, and carry over 5 weeks, 4 days! I can't possibly take 10 weeks of vacation! Three seems doable. My boss suggests that if I get another promotion, I quite, get the payout, and reapply! But that seems scary

I am working from home because, um, I need the bathroom,


sj - Dec 23, 2019 3:13:19 am PST #14898 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

TCG went from 5 weeks to 2 weeks when he switched jobs, but some of that was mitigated by a far shorter commute and flexible hours.


msbelle - Dec 23, 2019 4:02:49 am PST #14899 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

10 weeks is a lot. I would take every Wed off in winter, I think.

I had just moved up to 3 weeks of vacation 2 years ago. I hope to negotiate starting with at least 2.5 at a new job if they do not start me with 3.

Today I call moving companies, a potential adopter for my foster dog, and get one more package mailed out. Then maybe some more packing or maybe I'll bake some.


Laura - Dec 23, 2019 4:19:16 am PST #14900 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

I've known a number of people that started working 4 day weeks to use vacation time. Long weekends are good.