Look, you got a little stabbed the other day. That's bound to make anyone a mite ornery.

Mal ,'Ariel'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


askye - Dec 02, 2019 9:22:59 am PST #14241 of 30019
Thrive to spite them

Sounds like good progress for you and Mac Msbelle.


askye - Dec 02, 2019 9:31:57 am PST #14242 of 30019
Thrive to spite them

We had another round of arguments over What Temperature to Keep the House. Especially when the utility bill was paid . It was $260. It is like 55F outside and Matthew's mom had the heat in the main part of the house up to 85 while we were out. So MAtthew got mad and yelled about , his Mom claimed she will get sick if it gets any lower in the house and I'm pointing out if we keep it as warm as she wants it to be the utility bill will be double or triple.

I finally decided the only thing I can do is give up trying to wear anything cold weather related inside the house except when I'm getting ready to leave. I asked if we could agree to leave the temperature for the living room around 68-70 and turn the heat down at night. His mom kind of agreed but started going on about how cold it is and how once it gets colder we may have to turn up the heat and how tonight it is supposed to really really cold. It's 54 F outside and tonight the low should be 36F. Tomorrow the high should be 61 and she's acting like it's below freezing.

But she agreed (although I don't know if she'll keep from adjusting the thermostat) and I ordered a 2 pack of digital indoor thermometers so we can track the heat and be more accurate about how it is.


Matt the Bruins fan - Dec 02, 2019 10:00:51 am PST #14243 of 30019
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

People do get more sensitive to the cold as they age and circulation becomes poorer. In my dad's case we compensated by keeping the house on the warmish side of reasonable temps and dressing him in warm clothes with blankets handy, not by turning the whole place into a sauna.


Jessica - Dec 02, 2019 10:21:46 am PST #14244 of 30019
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

Are space heaters an option, so she can crank the heat up in whatever room she's in? Maybe an electric blanket for her room at night?


Laura - Dec 02, 2019 10:43:21 am PST #14245 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.

A number of the employees at my medical practices keep space heaters under their desks because the offices are so cold with AC blasting. That might be a good option.


askye - Dec 02, 2019 11:09:28 am PST #14246 of 30019
Thrive to spite them

She has 2 space heaters and an electric blanket AND she wears either her robe or a jacket and other layers. And that is kind of the issue. I think her room is around 89 (I don't know) so the house feels so much colder than it is and then it's a shock going outside.

She is anemic but hasn't gone to the doctor about it and hasn't been taking iron supplements. The heat hasn't been on in the spare room , where the computer is, and it's fairly comfortable in here for me and the living room is just a touch too warm it is what it is.


Theodosia - Dec 02, 2019 11:20:08 am PST #14247 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Yikes, askye! Now I'm wondering if I should google what kind of a symptom 'extremely cold-feeling' (or however you'd medically term it) and diagnose from far away.

Note: there may well be problems where even a little cold is a bad idea -- my Mom had trigeminal neuralgia and stepping into a blast of cold air could almost knock her off her feet because the facial pain it kicked off was like an electric shock.

She sounds super-hard to live with -- ltc is quite reasonable by comparison (and certainly age-appropriate).


-t - Dec 02, 2019 12:03:43 pm PST #14248 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

Hooray for mac apartment!

Yikes, askye.


Sheryl - Dec 02, 2019 12:11:11 pm PST #14249 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"

Timelies all!

Ugh, it's been a Monday. Gary got up at stupid o'clock to catch his flight for yet another business trip. I had to wrangle Mr. S to get him fed, medicated and dressed, in that order. Christmas music was playing all morning long in the lab.(Yep, I got LDB'ed already) And to top it off, when I got back from lunch my computer decided it wouldn't accept my password or read my ID card. Both things worked when I used them in another computer, so I don't know why my computer lost it's mind. Called the help desk who said they'd put me in as high priority. Didn't see or hear any IT people the rest of the day.

Oh, yeah, still grey and rainy.


NoiseDesign - Dec 02, 2019 12:17:04 pm PST #14250 of 30019
Our wings are not tired

While we were decorating the tree on Sunday I got Maria'd, LDB'ed, and sent to Whamhalla, all in one Spotify playlist.