Sending you all kinds of love and support, Sophia. I'm really glad you shared this with us. And if I was still up near Syracuse, I would come help! Sorry I'm not.
I don't give a good gorram about relevant, Wash. Or objective. And I ain't so afraid of losing something that I ain't gonna try to have it. You and I would make one beautiful baby. And I want to meet that child one day. Period.
Zoe ,'Heart Of Gold'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Amy - Oct 23, 2019 3:20:46 pm PDT #12585 of 30019
Because books.
amych - Oct 23, 2019 3:31:43 pm PDT #12586 of 30019
Now let us crush something soft and watch it fountain blood. That is a girlish thing to want to do, yes?
Sophia, I just want to say that you're already more brave and strong than you realize, to be able to face this and get help and make a plan.
I'm nowhere especially near where you are, but if checking in with you, or remote cheerleading for each space you clear or each thing you toss, or Venmo-ing a little something your way to help with the cleaning service would help you get through this, I'm sure I'm not the only one who would help however I can.
-t - Oct 23, 2019 3:32:35 pm PDT #12587 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{{Sophia}}} It sounds like you have done a lot and have made space for yourself to do more! You're doing great.
The snail is to go in my aquatic plant thingy that my dad gave me. To keep it clean, I guess it is an aquarium thing, like the little catfish-looking critter we always had. I just need to get over to PetCo, but I need to remember to do it in the middle of the day so I can get the snail directly from the store to my cubicle.
sj - Oct 23, 2019 3:39:29 pm PDT #12588 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Sophia, you should be proud you're taking these steps.
Topic!Cindy - Oct 23, 2019 3:48:41 pm PDT #12589 of 30019
What is even happening?
Sophia, this has to be so hard, and you just keep facing it and tackling it. I'm cheering you on.
msbelle - Oct 23, 2019 4:12:30 pm PDT #12590 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Jesse - Oct 23, 2019 4:29:02 pm PDT #12591 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Everything I know about Law and Order is being called into question: Adam Driver was on a last-season episode, and he didn't do it!
Sophia Brooks - Oct 23, 2019 4:29:32 pm PDT #12592 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here
Thanks all. I may still have to run away from this if I can't afford the help. I mean, I can keep pushing on but it is going to be a long haul if I have to bag this living room up myself. My BFF keeps offering me bins, but it is mostly trash.
I just can't believe I have been so out of it and didn't really see it.
I have done the unfuck plenty of times, but this is way beyond that in the one room. I think I can handle it in the rest of the house.
But thank you shrift, that was thoughtful
Jesse - Oct 23, 2019 4:32:46 pm PDT #12593 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
Well, keep us posted -- I'm sure I'm not the only one who would help with the cost. It's so often that there's nothing we as a community can really do to help each other, but we are great at throwing money at a problem!
sj - Oct 23, 2019 4:45:42 pm PDT #12594 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Seconding Jesse. I'm happy to help.