That's hard, Sophia, but you're taking steps to improve things. And I'm sure you'll be able to make a safe home for you and your cat.
I can handle the Oz Full Monty. I mean, not 'handle' handle.
Xander ,'Help'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Calli - Oct 20, 2019 4:03:12 pm PDT #12454 of 30019
I must obey the inscrutable exhortations of my soul—Calvin and Hobbs
Theodosia - Oct 20, 2019 4:43:00 pm PDT #12455 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"
All my love, Sophia!
Beverly - Oct 20, 2019 4:57:50 pm PDT #12456 of 30019
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.
Thank you for sharing with us, Sophia. And it takes so much courage to admit this and move forward with a plan to fix it. Anything any of us can do to help you, we're here.
-t - Oct 20, 2019 8:36:24 pm PDT #12457 of 30019
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
{{{Sophia}}} I'm so proud of you for posting all that, and honored that you trust us with it.
NoiseDesign - Oct 20, 2019 9:22:49 pm PDT #12458 of 30019
Our wings are not tired
Sophia, all the love and strength in the world to you. You can get through this.
On the very pragmatic front, it may give you some peace of mind to talk to a lawyer that specialized in tenant rights. They may be able to help you put tighter an agreement with your landlord given the fact that you are in therapy and having professional help come in for the cleaning.
Shir - Oct 21, 2019 2:14:51 am PDT #12459 of 30019
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".
Sophia, all the strength and housing~ma and love to you. I cannot imagine how hard it is, but you are brave and capable of this and taking big steps in the right direction.
Laura - Oct 21, 2019 4:25:24 am PDT #12460 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
Making a plan and being in therapy sounds like you are on the right path. Hiring professionals is excellent.
Yes, and trust me on this, the professionals have seen worse.
If there is anything we all can do virtually, please let us know.
And This!
Gudanov - Oct 21, 2019 5:00:31 am PDT #12461 of 30019
Coding and Sleeping
((Sophia)) much strength to you.
Matt the Bruins fan - Oct 21, 2019 6:10:41 am PDT #12462 of 30019
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand
Sophia, it sounds to me like getting into therapy and hiring professionals to remove clutter are both excellent healthy steps that should also be demonstrations of good faith effort to your landlord. Much love to you.
Zenkitty - Oct 21, 2019 6:13:48 am PDT #12463 of 30019
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Sophia, I hope you're feeling better today. You can do this.
Does anyone have knowledge of how COBRA and getting health insurance works? I have questions that this information packet I just got isn't answering.