Willow: You know what they say. The bigger they are... Anya: The faster they stomp you into nothin'.

'The Killer In Me'


Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess  

Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.


DebetEsse - Aug 03, 2019 9:32:47 pm PDT #10089 of 30019
Woe to the fucking wicked.

All of mine (4 grands and a great-grand) were Grandma/pa Lastname. That's what they've decided to go with (Although we're using first initials for signing with the baby, since V and H are very similar, but L/R and S/M are nicely sorted into similar sets).

It's real weird for me because "Grandma/Grandpa Lastname" do not yet automatically pull up the right person in my brain.


Theodosia - Aug 04, 2019 12:03:22 am PDT #10090 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"

Wills are a whole lot easier when you only have nephews and a niece to leave things to, and they're all over 18 now, and four of them graduated college so far.


Sophia Brooks - Aug 04, 2019 3:12:44 am PDT #10091 of 30019
Cats to become a rabbit should gather immediately now here

I should probably make a will just to make things easier for Maria when I die. I am the youngest person in my family aside from distant cousins and have no assets except life insurance (she is the beneficiary) and retirement savings. Once my debt is paid that doesn't leave much

I only had one set of grandparents and they were grandma and grandpa. My mom and her brothers and sisters referred to my grandma as Granny. They never called her a mother type name in my presence


Matt the Bruins fan - Aug 04, 2019 4:23:11 am PDT #10092 of 30019
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I've held off making a will so far because Mom's my only immediate family member and both has access to my bank accounts and is named as the beneficiary of my 401k. In the unlikely event that I settle down, I'll have to make decisions about how to divide the $ up between her and my hypothetical partner.


dcp - Aug 04, 2019 5:37:38 am PDT #10093 of 30019
The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know.

My few assets are non-estate assets, are not subject to probate, and have beneficiaries designated - which simplifies things.

The tedious part is keeping updated the list of recurring liabilities and the details which will be needed to cancel them. I don't do auto bill-pay, but some of the accounts and subscriptions do auto-renew annually.

For me, the really awkward one was the durable healthcare power of attorney.


Dana - Aug 04, 2019 6:35:38 am PDT #10094 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

It helps to be a married couple with no kids, each of whom has one sibling. It makes wills pretty straightforward.

Did a little research prior to my first Botox appointment tomorrow, and have now successfully freaked myself out a little.


Atropa - Aug 04, 2019 8:06:54 am PDT #10095 of 30019
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Dana, the Botox is for migraines, right? I've been getting quarterly injections for two years now, and I've never had any of the side effects, just blessed relief.


Dana - Aug 04, 2019 9:06:15 am PDT #10096 of 30019
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Yeah, migraines. Every other article was like, it's nothing! Tiny needles! and then every OTHER article was like, it's a bunch of NEEDLES! In your face!

I mean, despite my whining, I think I have a pretty decent pain tolerance. And I'm not very worried about side effects, except I'm not sure I want parts of my face to stop moving. But we'll see.


Scrappy - Aug 04, 2019 10:38:15 am PDT #10097 of 30019
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

My grandmothers were named after their locations — Escanaba Grammy and Florida Grammy. My maternal great grandmother (who I am named after but never met) was called Gagoo. Her sister's grandchildren called her Aimee. Their grandkids each had sailboats named after their grandmothers, and on Saturday afternoons, you could see two elegant old women standing on the shores of Lake Michigan, shouting "Go Gagoo!" And "Get 'em, Aimee!"


msbelle - Aug 04, 2019 1:18:20 pm PDT #10098 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb

Oh I forgot I do have one unique naming. The only great-grandparent I met, my Great-Grandmother went by Treasure. She got the moniker from a grand-daughter she was helping to raise.