Same here Jesse. Every joint in my body is freaking out.
ltc is learning that mommy is not making empty threats. If 4 time outs in a row isn't going to teach her not to hit me, maybe missing karate will.
Does anybody else miss the Mayor? 'I just want to be a big snake.'
Xander ,'End of Days'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
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sj - Jul 31, 2019 11:23:01 am PDT #10009 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Laura - Jul 31, 2019 11:36:58 am PDT #10010 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
Did you start the 1-2-3, sj?
sj - Jul 31, 2019 11:40:31 am PDT #10011 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
Yes. It was working quite well, but she's been a terror since her birthday party. Still trying to stick with it, but hitting is an automatic 3, even in the book. And after 4 take 5s other consequences have to come into play.
Jesse - Jul 31, 2019 11:45:19 am PDT #10012 of 30019
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.
ltc is learning that mommy is not making empty threats.
I honestly think that's one of the most important things a kid can learn.
Laura - Jul 31, 2019 11:50:22 am PDT #10013 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
I'm sorry, but it sounds like you are setting the right boundaries. If only kids would figure out that life is really a whole lot more fun when they behave! Having to punish sucks mightily.
DebetEsse - Jul 31, 2019 11:53:39 am PDT #10014 of 30019
Woe to the fucking wicked.
I honestly think that's one of the most important things a kid can learn.
Truth.
Parents, as well. I've been working on instilling this idea in DH
sj - Jul 31, 2019 11:54:56 am PDT #10015 of 30019
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."
I'm half looking forward to and half dreading our vacation because we have all these wonderful plans, but I don't know how she is going to behave.
Laura - Jul 31, 2019 12:06:19 pm PDT #10016 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
That was always the worst, I would have something really nice planned for the boys and then they would do something that made it impossible for me to be able to do it. Grrr.
Sheryl - Jul 31, 2019 1:51:26 pm PDT #10017 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
We're trying to learn that lesson as well, sj. After two sessions with the child psychologist(one with Mr. S and one without him) we have a diagnosis: ADHD and DMDD. The first isn't really a surprise, given his birth mother's medical history, the second(which stands for Disruptive Mood Disregulation Disorder) makes sense as well, since it covers his non-complience and difficulty in self-regulation. Now to see where we go from here.
quester - Jul 31, 2019 3:17:49 pm PDT #10018 of 30019
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
msbelle, pray you don't have my experience! Almost 20 years and im still having hot flashes. Not as intense as they were, but I still always have a fan and ice water at hand.