That was always the worst, I would have something really nice planned for the boys and then they would do something that made it impossible for me to be able to do it. Grrr.
I'm very sorry if she tipped off anyone about your cunningly concealed herd of cows.
Simon ,'Safe'
Natter 76: Life, Liberty, and the Pursuit of Foaminess
Off-topic discussion. Wanna talk about corsets, duct tape, butt kicking, or physics? This is the place. Detailed discussion of any current-season TV must be whitefonted.
Laura - Jul 31, 2019 12:06:19 pm PDT #10016 of 30019
Our wings are not tired.
Sheryl - Jul 31, 2019 1:51:26 pm PDT #10017 of 30019
Fandom means never having to say "But where would I wear that?"
Timelies all!
We're trying to learn that lesson as well, sj. After two sessions with the child psychologist(one with Mr. S and one without him) we have a diagnosis: ADHD and DMDD. The first isn't really a surprise, given his birth mother's medical history, the second(which stands for Disruptive Mood Disregulation Disorder) makes sense as well, since it covers his non-complience and difficulty in self-regulation. Now to see where we go from here.
quester - Jul 31, 2019 3:17:49 pm PDT #10018 of 30019
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.
msbelle, pray you don't have my experience! Almost 20 years and im still having hot flashes. Not as intense as they were, but I still always have a fan and ice water at hand.
Vortex - Jul 31, 2019 4:44:27 pm PDT #10019 of 30019
"Cry havoc and let slip the boobs of war!" -- Miracleman
Vortex, at this point it looks like we'll just miss you in New Orleans. :-(
Boo! But yay for new opportunity.
Steph L. - Jul 31, 2019 6:04:41 pm PDT #10020 of 30019
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine
msbelle, pray you don't have my experience! Almost 20 years and im still having hot flashes. Not as intense as they were, but I still always have a fan and ice water at hand.
I haven't started having hot flashes per se, but in the past several months, it just feels like my internal thermometer has been turned up 5 degrees, permanently. (And it's not because it's summer, because that's never happened before. I'm inside the house with central air all day long, and I'm still overly warm.) But if I would stop getting my dang period, I'd be happy to launch fully into menopause.
msbelle - Jul 31, 2019 6:11:03 pm PDT #10021 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
I've put in 10 hours of work today and I am still not done for the night and I have things waiting on my desk that have to be in before 10am.
I really hope my boss has his 1 on 1 with me tomorrow, because no one doing any of my entry work while I am on vacation is bullshit.
meara - Jul 31, 2019 7:30:46 pm PDT #10022 of 30019
That is bullshit indeed, msbelle. If "vacation" just means "do all your tasks when you're back" it doesn't really count.
It's late here (I'm on east coast time) and I'm trying to go to sleep and failing. I have a tickle in my nose or the lady upstairs keeps walking around or I start thinking about something or...ugh.
Consuela - Jul 31, 2019 8:10:14 pm PDT #10023 of 30019
We are Buffistas. This isn't our first apocalypse. -- Pix
I too am in the hot flash brigade. I ended up buying all new pyjamas (bamboo) and a small-profile vertical fan to blow on my bed all night. It helps... some. What would help more is if I would cut out all red wine and sugar from my diet, but really, I have to have something to live for. (Although whiskey is better than wine for hot flashes apparently...)
Theodosia - Aug 01, 2019 1:13:27 am PDT #10024 of 30019
'we all walk this earth feeling we are frauds. The trick is to be grateful and hope the caper doesn't end any time soon"
Sheryl, great to hear you've gotten to a diagnosis, which is key to making strategies for corrective action. Fingers crossed!
I'm well over the hot flash stage which is great, except that the (ahem) Change left me incredibly heat-sensitive. I sweat so much more now. It seems ironic that I spent the first half of my life too cold, and now I'm going to be too hot -- there should have been a couple days in the middle where everything was nice, you know?
msbelle - Aug 01, 2019 5:45:41 am PDT #10025 of 30019
I remember the crazy days. 500 posts an hour. Nubmer! Natgbsb
Crying at work before 10am. BINGO!
Overwhelmed with minutia that no one else pays attention to. Discovered errors on all the data put into my daily reports while I was on vacation. EVERY. SINGLE. DAY.