What should I do, then? Send her a gift? Sacrifice? … Unholy fruit basket?

Angel ,'Just Rewards (2)'


Goodbye and Good Riddance 2017: That'll put marzipan in your pie plate, Bingo!  

Every year we watch the Charlie Brown special, do the Snoopy dance, wish everybody a Merry Thanksgivukkahmas, and thank our Secret Santas in the good riddance thread. Which is this one, in case you were wondering.

Go away, 2017. You have a lot to turn around, 2018. Bring it on.


Matt the Bruins fan - Jan 03, 2018 5:46:02 am PST #96 of 162
"I remember when they eventually introduced that drug kingpin who murdered people and smuggled drugs inside snakes and I was like 'Finally. A normal person.'” —RahvinDragand

I've been quite happy with glasses from zenni.com that cost about $25. If your exam is from someone who'll provide the prescription without requiring you to buy their glasses, it's pretty easy to enter the info in their website.


Laura - Jan 03, 2018 5:51:19 am PST #97 of 162
Our wings are not tired.

Sophia, that is a whole lot! Also, I am really impressed with your ability to be so responsible taking care of yourself, and others, while slogging through depression. It ain't easy, and you should recognize your accomplishments.


SuziQ - Jan 03, 2018 5:52:17 am PST #98 of 162
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Another Zenni fan here. And yes, that is A LOT to deal with.


Jesse - Jan 03, 2018 5:58:37 am PST #99 of 162
Sometimes I trip on how happy we could be.

I've just had eyebuydirect recommended to me, for what that's worth.


meara - Jan 03, 2018 6:44:57 am PST #100 of 162

I've used Zenni also, it's much cheaper than warby Parker.

My 2017 is feeling unmemorable. It wasn't. I had a lot of fun with friends, trips to Miami and San Francisco for dance conventions, my trip to Japan, seeing the eclipse, going camping and going to a weekend cabin, the Festival of Babes and watching the lesbian softball at LCP, and so on. My roommate moved out in June and I got a new one in November who seems to be working really well. I saw my bff a few times and her kiddo. Running my first (and likely only) half marathon.

But I also struggled with my depression being worse for most of the year, after taking a while to actually do anything about that, and then trying a few different medication options. I think between increasing the dose in September and adding some supplements has helped a lot. But I stopped running and weigh more than I ever have, currently. Not real happy about that, which doesn't help. Still trying to get up the oomph to get back at working out—especially since I think it was helping the depression some, in the spring when I was training.

So this year I'd really like to run again. Dance more (I've almost entirely stopped going to any of the non-gay dancing). Go on more weekend trips, including seeing my cousin and her kids in Denver before they are no longer babies. Do more new things. Go to Mexico for some Vitamin D. Plan another international trip. Have my clothes that are not stretchy fit again.


NoiseDesign - Jan 03, 2018 10:08:12 am PST #101 of 162
Our wings are not tired

Costco is also a really good option for glasses. You can do the eye exam there without a membership, but you'll need a membership to buy the glasses.


Zenkitty - Jan 03, 2018 2:45:40 pm PST #102 of 162
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Sophia, let me just add my voice to the chorus of Holy crap, that's a lot of stress! You're clearly a strong and resilient person, and it's no wonder you'd be depressed after a year like that.

I was on that same high-fat very-low-carb diet for a few months, years ago. I lost a lot of weight fast and felt real good, but once I went off it I could never stand to do it again. I lost all interest in food, too; I only ate when I was physically too hungry to ignore it.

I've used Zenni and I like them. If your prescription is real strong, though, you won't get glasses for $20. But they're still cheap, compared to the 100s of $$ you'd pay at the optometrist.


SuziQ - Jan 03, 2018 3:37:09 pm PST #103 of 162
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

My tri-focal progressive glasses rarely cost over $100 with Zenni.


quester - Jan 04, 2018 3:58:18 pm PST #104 of 162
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

Sophia, Holy crap!

And I got a package and card from My Secret Santa, a lovely Wonder Woman scarf from Think Geek.

Also, to my giftee, sorry for slacking but stuff Is coming.


quester - Jan 04, 2018 4:04:54 pm PST #105 of 162
Danger is my middle name, only I spell it R. u. t. h. - Tina Belcher.

2017: the year I moved into a 2nd floor apartment and gained a view. Mostly of the Hiawatha Fie station, but I'll take what I can get!