Don't belong. Dangerous, like you. Can't be controlled. Can't be trusted. Everyone could just go on without me and not have to worry. People could be what they wanted to be. Could be with the people they wanted. Live simple. No secrets.

River ,'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Jun 27, 2023 3:25:00 pm PDT #7859 of 8114
Thrive to spite them

My first period at 50 hit me like a truck. I've had no energy . Cramps aren't the worst but pretty bad.

I went over for Crafty Day witb my friend but cut it short because i felt so icky.i felt better this morning but then faded fast. And I was going to volunteer tomorrow but emailed them to cancel. Which is disappointing but since I know it will be hot and it's not work I'm staying home.

And the internet had been out for most of the day. Supposed to be back st 430 and now it's 630 and Spectrum is "working on the problem"


erikaj - Jun 27, 2023 6:44:45 pm PDT #7860 of 8114
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

Cable companies all need Elizabeth Warren to put her foot up their butts. Yeah...today was better, but not much.


Steph L. - Jun 27, 2023 7:18:11 pm PDT #7861 of 8114
Apparently if you're enough of a power nerd, there is nothing that cannot be flowcharted.

My first period at 50 hit me like a truck.

I'm 52 now and still fucking getting them. Though they are more and more irregular, so I'm hoping they'll fuck off completely sooner rather than later. It feels really unfair to get a period AND hot flashes.


brenda m - Jun 27, 2023 7:35:07 pm PDT #7862 of 8114
If you're going through hell/keep on going/don't slow down/keep your fear from showing/you might be gone/'fore the devil even knows you're there

I thought I was finally on that road, and hadn’t had a period since February. But the damn heparin they gave me in the hospital seems to have brought it back. Feh. Super light though so I’m telling myself it doesn’t really count.


askye - Jun 28, 2023 9:00:21 am PDT #7863 of 8114
Thrive to spite them

I'm feeling better today. I really want to go volunteer tomorrow so I'll see how I feel this afternoon. Normally I'm not hit with this kind of fatigue and it's annoying.

Also the last time I talked to a dr about peri menopause and menopause she was like -- I have a patient who is 60 (or almost 60 I can't remember) who still has regular cycles... Which sounds like a horror story.


Toddson - Jun 28, 2023 11:07:19 am PDT #7864 of 8114
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

eesh ... I can't imagine still having regular cycles ... I was relieved when I hit menopause.

this seemed like a Buffista/Bitch thing.


erikaj - Jun 28, 2023 1:59:19 pm PDT #7865 of 8114
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

I was late to get mine and they have been interrupted a lot so I suppose there are a few left. A great deal better, but not 100% yet. Enough so I can do my Zoom event today, which is good...being registered for a week feels like a long-range plan nowadays.


askye - Jun 29, 2023 7:22:54 am PDT #7866 of 8114
Thrive to spite them

Well my super tiredness hasn't just been from my period. I haven't been taking my Vyvanse. I was accidentally taking some old duloxetine. I misplaced it Vyvanse several days ago and found a bottle behind the dresser. It rattled like capsules so I just assumed it was Vyvanse (I thought I had disposed of all my old meds).

This morning I was moving a pile of dirty laundry to a laundry basket snd found a medicine bottle...looked at it. Vyvanse. Huh I thought..I didn't realize I had extra somehow. Checked the bottle on the dresser. Duloxetine.

The capsules are different sizes but since I'm half asleep when I take the Vyvanse in the morning it didn't register.

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erikaj - Jun 29, 2023 11:28:21 am PDT #7867 of 8114
If Scooby Doo taught me anything, it's that the only thing to fear is real-estate developers.Lisa Simpson

The training yesterday was one of the best ones I've been to in a long time.


askye - Jun 29, 2023 12:20:53 pm PDT #7868 of 8114
Thrive to spite them

awesome erika!

I had a great time volunteering today. I sorted through more yarn...so much yarn. A lot of vintage acrylic and wool but also A LOT of really really nice yarn.

And the store doesn't sell magazines they get donated they end up recycling them but I was talking to one of the founders about the type of art I do and after I was off and kind of shopping around he found me and said "I have some magazines you might like" and they were Art Journaling but also some other stuff he didn't think i'd like. I told him I'd pretty much take anything they had and ended up with a couple of boxes of really neat magazines.