hahaha I do what I want
Think that shows enough Fuck-It
And don't you ever stand for that sort of thing. Someone ever tries to kill you, you try to kill 'em right back! ... You got the right same as anyone to live and try to kill people.
Mal ,'Our Mrs. Reynolds'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
Katerina Bee - Jun 29, 2017 8:03:09 am PDT #761 of 8185
Herding cats for fun
EpicTangent - Jun 29, 2017 9:16:40 am PDT #762 of 8185
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
Matilda needs to grow a little more Fuck-It, so I have to nurture it.
One of my favorite Matilda stories you've related was when the music said, "Take good care of yourself, you belong to me," and she responded, "You belong to no one!" Seems like the girl's got a good head on her shoulders, and a sturdy spine to support it.
Liese S. - Jun 29, 2017 3:50:02 pm PDT #763 of 8185
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
Yeah, I think soccer was good for me in that way, too. I played defense, mostly, but I could stare down a boy twice my weight bearing down on me. They blinked first, in the end, mostly.
But I still spent a lifetime kowtowing to other peoples' needs, so it's good to nurture it with Matilda now. There was a very distinct moment in recent therapy wherein I was all, wait, not giving a fuck is an option here? And then suddenly it was, everywhere.
Dana - Jun 29, 2017 4:02:30 pm PDT #764 of 8185
"I'm useless alone." // "We're all useless alone. It's a good thing you're not alone."
I feel hopeful that more girls are growing up that way now. Not feeling like they're responsible for everyone being pleased all the time.
Steph L. - Jun 29, 2017 6:17:45 pm PDT #765 of 8185
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
There was a very distinct moment in recent therapy wherein I was all, wait, not giving a fuck is an option here? And then suddenly it was, everywhere.
Heh. My therapist said to me a couple of weeks ago, "I feel like you're REALLY CLOSE to that stage of your life where you have zero fucks left to give about all the bullshit going on, and that is going to be glorious."
(I am not there yet.)
Liese S. - Jun 29, 2017 6:37:19 pm PDT #766 of 8185
"Faded like the lilac, he thought."
I'm still pretty amused at the parallel paths our therapy took, Tep, considering our divergent issues.
I am feeling pretty bereft at the loss of my therapist, too, amidst everything else.
But yes, it was a beautiful and liberating moment. Lights shone down from heaven. Pretty sure there was a choir.
Not that it's stuck, entirely, but I can definitively say I give fewer fucks at the moment than previously were given.
Zenkitty - Jun 29, 2017 6:46:10 pm PDT #767 of 8185
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Think that shows enough Fuck-It
The Fuck-It is strong in this one
May we all soon achieve a helpful level of Fuck-It
Steph L. - Jun 29, 2017 6:46:30 pm PDT #768 of 8185
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe
I'm still pretty amused at the parallel paths our therapy took, Tep, considering our divergent issues.
That is super serendipitous!
Katerina Bee - Jun 29, 2017 7:22:09 pm PDT #769 of 8185
Herding cats for fun
Crap, I still give a fuck. I will take a dose of Fuckitall and see if I am misanthropic in the morning.
Zenkitty - Jun 29, 2017 8:13:05 pm PDT #770 of 8185
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.
Take Fuckitall with wine and chocolate.
Side effects may include lowered blood pressure, elevated feet, and missed deadlines.
In case of overdose, go immediately to the nearest beach or amusement park.
Ask your doctor if Fuckitall is right for you!