Well, he said a friend is coming over in half an hour (or less, now). And I'm going to call him back soon. I'm going to tell him that he needs to go to the hospital. If the friend is there, hopefully I can talk to her.
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Steph L. - Nov 14, 2019 6:42:17 am PST #6581 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
JZ - Nov 14, 2019 6:57:07 am PST #6582 of 8213
See? I gave everybody here an opportunity to tell me what a bad person I am and nobody did, because I fuckin' rule.
I'm so sorry, Teppy. That's agonizing to deal with from afar. Definitely talk to his friend when she gets there, just so neither of you feels so alone.
amyth - Nov 14, 2019 7:01:34 am PST #6583 of 8213
And none of us deserving the cruelty or the grace -- Leonard Cohen
I'm so sorry, Steph. It's horrible to feel so powerless to help someone you love. I hope you are able to get his friend to get him to the hospital.
Steph L. - Nov 14, 2019 7:04:26 am PST #6584 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
No answer when I called. I'm trying very very hard to not jump to a worst-case scenario, because he did say he was going to take a nap.
But I left a message, and if he doesn't call me back in 15 minutes, I'm calling again.
Steph L. - Nov 14, 2019 7:19:12 am PST #6585 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
No answer again. I am losing my goddamn mind.
-t - Nov 14, 2019 7:19:32 am PST #6586 of 8213
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Holding you in my thoughts, Tep. I hope he answers the next call.
-t - Nov 14, 2019 7:20:46 am PST #6587 of 8213
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration
Unfortunate crosspost. Can you call his wife, ask if she has a number of someone who is physically near him who can check on him?
Laura - Nov 14, 2019 7:27:03 am PST #6588 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.
Hopefully the friend has already arrived. I'm sorry. Wish we could do more to help.
Steph L. - Nov 14, 2019 7:36:26 am PST #6589 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism
Talked to him. He sounds bad. He said he really needs to sleep. His friend is there, but he wouldn't give the phone to him. He asked me to call back in an hour, so that's what I'll do. Fuck.
I'm so, so grateful that you're all here. Thank you. I don't know how to make a heart emoji, or I would.
Sophia Brooks - Nov 14, 2019 7:46:47 am PST #6590 of 8213
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Can you get him to call his wife, maybe? I am so sorry this is happening and ultimately he is not really your responsibility or his wife's, or his friend, but his friend can do things like call for help if things get really bad.