Mal: Can I come in? Inara: No. Mal: See? That's why I usually don't ask.

'Our Mrs. Reynolds'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Shir - Oct 09, 2019 10:28:36 pm PDT #6388 of 8213
"And that's why God Almighty gave us fire insurance and the public defender".

Steph, Epic, and Zen - I am sorry. Hoping for positive news for all of you.

Hil, the community sounds amazing. I've never heard of a community that offers snacks and water during Yom Kippur (but I live in Jerusalem, so that doesn't say much). That's very thoughtful.


Steph L. - Oct 10, 2019 9:30:46 am PDT #6389 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Y'all, getting a migraine and my period on the same day is just not cool. My painkillers don't know which thing to fix.

My uncle is not dealing with my aunt's death very well -- he's really angry, which I think is a normal response, but he's taking it out on my cousins and is just being really mean to them. My mom texted me and said not to call or text him because he's just really volatile. It sucks. It seems within the normal range of grief, but really sucks.


Laura - Oct 10, 2019 9:41:18 am PDT #6390 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

It is really hard on everyone when grief psychosis hits. Wishes for peace and comfort for all.


-t - Oct 10, 2019 10:18:25 am PDT #6391 of 8213
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

{{{Tep}}} All that is hard! I'm sorry.


Amy - Oct 10, 2019 3:43:32 pm PDT #6392 of 8213
Because books.

Oh, Tep, that's a lot. I'm so sorry your uncle is so distraught.


Topic!Cindy - Oct 10, 2019 4:58:06 pm PDT #6393 of 8213
What is even happening?

That sounds so hard, Teppy. I'm sorry.


Zenkitty - Oct 11, 2019 5:51:18 am PDT #6394 of 8213
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

I'm really sorry, Steph. I hope your uncle can get through this stage of grieving soon.

Thanks for the good words, y'all. I'm doing okay so far.


Dana - Oct 12, 2019 11:15:26 am PDT #6395 of 8213
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

WTF (why the fuck) do I have cramps? What is this bullshit where bodies just get random as you age? Aging is bullshit.


Steph L. - Oct 12, 2019 11:50:17 am PDT #6396 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

Aging is bullshit.

TRUTH.

I'm wearing jeans for the first time since late April/early May, and there's always that moment of truth, after 6 months of wearing flowy skirts and comfy dresses and gym shorts -- will the jeans still fit? But they fit fine, so I'm going to take that win.


Steph L. - Oct 14, 2019 9:16:59 am PDT #6397 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

My aunt's funeral is tomorrow, and one good thing is that my brother was able to fly in for it, so I'm about to go get him from the airport. Shitty reason for him to have to be here, but I'll be so glad to see him.