What you did to me was unbelievable, Connor. But then I got stuck in a hell dimension by my girlfriend one time for a hundred years, so three months under the ocean actually gave me perspective. Kind of a M.C. Escher perspective, but I did get time to think.

Angel ,'Conviction (1)'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Dana - Nov 28, 2018 6:17:36 am PST #4779 of 8235
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I have a weighted blanket too, and I can't figure out if I'm sleeping better or I'm just convincing myself that I'm sleeping better.


sj - Nov 28, 2018 6:56:28 am PST #4780 of 8235
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

No now I'm waiting to hear from the scheduling department.

I bought it from gravityblankets dot com. Very pricey but worth it.


Deena - Nov 28, 2018 6:59:19 am PST #4781 of 8235
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Cool. I'll check it out.


Dana - Nov 28, 2018 7:03:19 am PST #4782 of 8235
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

I got mine from Amazon, btw. They have several.


meara - Nov 28, 2018 7:25:23 am PST #4783 of 8235

I've been tempted by weighted blankets (I find the X-ray blanket at the dentists very soothing) but also wonder how like, tossing and turning works with those?


Toddson - Nov 28, 2018 9:17:52 am PST #4784 of 8235
Friends don't let friends read "Atlas Shrugged"

I think Target also has fairly inexpensive weighted blankets. Or you could just have cats ... they'll provide weight and warmth.


Steph L. - Nov 28, 2018 10:02:35 am PST #4785 of 8235
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I don't want to say Facebook is creepy (wait, yeah I do), but right now on my feed is an ad for weighted blankets. WTF, Facebook.


Deena - Nov 29, 2018 12:18:50 am PST #4786 of 8235
How are you me? You need to stop that. Only I can be me. ~Kara

Facebook is creepy.

I like your tagline, Teppy.

For the record: What do we do? Panic? Freak? I usually panic, but I am happy to freak!

So, saw the therapist on Wednesday. She's very proud of me for posting, and said she will be double-checking with me regularly to be sure I keep it up (man I love an internet savvy therapist. You are NOT ax murderers!) ION, I had to promise to leave the house at least twice a week. I don't mind, mostly, except the promise made it a little nauseating to think about.

I've been all cray-cray this last couple of weeks. I was navigating yesterday and had Greg turn left at one stop light. He asked me, "Are you sure?" And I yelled, "Yes, I'm fucking sure!" and so he jumped over into the turn lane and turned and I realized that I was wrong, so I said, "I was fucking wrong! But I was fucking sure when I said it!" and, poor Greg, said, "Are you being funny right now or are you still pissed?"

My therapist HOWLED when I told her that. After getting over being shocked that I yelled at Greg. I was a little shocked myself. But I was actually trying to be funny after the turn.


Steph L. - Nov 29, 2018 3:17:41 am PST #4787 of 8235
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

I like your tagline, Teppy.

For the record: What do we do? Panic? Freak? I usually panic, but I am happy to freak!

It's from The Good Place.


Laura - Nov 29, 2018 10:14:26 am PST #4788 of 8235
Our wings are not tired.

I stayed in bed until about 2 this afternoon. Considering showering now. Had a bad headache, and my chest is heavy with an annoying but not difficult cough. Honestly, I just think it is exhaustion. Just a lot of stuff going on. The dog, my cousin who lost her son to stroke this past summer just had a major stroke and we are just awaiting her passing, my eldest son, work stuff, house construction. Just too much too much. DH wanted me to stay in bed, but the last time I did that was after surgery. I just don't get sick so I don't do it well.

So taking it slow. Just cleared emails but didn't work on anything (much). I have a nail appt later so I'll manage to get cleaned up and out the door. Son is driving his wife there since we coordinate our nail appts, and she will drive me home since I don't really like to drive at night.

So, blah. DH also is getting the Christmas tree but promised that I can just sit and supervise him and the kids since they are all over 6' tall and I have to use a ladder or stool.