Kaylee: H-how did you... g-get on...? Early: Strains the mind a bit, don't it? You think you're all alone. Maybe I come down the chimney, Kaylee. Bring presents to the good girls and boys.

'Objects In Space'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Nov 23, 2018 4:58:33 am PST #4735 of 8235
Our wings are not tired.

I didn't make any of the desserts, but I made my cranberry concoction with applesauce and orange juice because I don't have sugar in the house. MIL didn't notice when I made her coffee with stevia, but she was distracted by the tasty almond joy flavored creamer I used.


Pix - Nov 23, 2018 7:34:10 am PST #4736 of 8235
The status is NOT quo.

Hi all. I am still in bed in my post-Thanksgiving haze. We had 11 people yesterday, and our spread included roast turkey and gravy; cornbread stuffing with apples, onions, celery, and cranberries; roast brussels sprouts with pecans; green beans with butter; mashed sweet potatoes with maple syrup; and cranberry relish. I made three pies: a tart green apple, a sweet apple-pear hybrid, and pumpkin with homemade whipped cream. Hosting every year is an enormous amount of work, but I love that we've had this tradition for 13 years. It's so wonderful to see everyone enjoying the food and each other's company.

I need to get up and do some grading, but my bed is so much more appealing.


Laura - Nov 23, 2018 8:26:52 am PST #4737 of 8235
Our wings are not tired.

Relax in the food and people afterglow.

I just added Hulu to our tv and left Love It or List It up on the screen to surprise DH. Since we cancelled cable ages ago the only thing he has moaned about is his lack of HGTV. He is going to be so relieved and happy.


Beverly - Nov 23, 2018 1:31:57 pm PST #4738 of 8235
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

HGTV is sort of the Bob Ross of cable, right? I love all the 'flip' couples--even Tarek and Christina, soldiering on as business partners. I can't wait for Good Bones and Home Town to come back in hopes of seeing the new babies, as well as house rehab. And even though I know the couples have chosen their houses before they appear, Property Brothers is always fun, as is Listed Sisters.

I still miss Matt and Sherri, though, and the crews that go through your basement, attic, and garage and rehab your look with what they find on hand. And when they visited *gardens* still part of the channel's name.


Laura - Nov 23, 2018 1:58:24 pm PST #4739 of 8235
Our wings are not tired.

His reaction to sitting down in his chair and seeing Love It or List It paused on the screen was priceless. He is super happy to have his HGTV shows back.


Beverly - Nov 23, 2018 3:11:04 pm PST #4740 of 8235
Days shrink and grow cold, sunlight through leaves is my song. Winter is long.

Yay! Nice going, Laura.


Nora Deirdre - Nov 25, 2018 12:12:59 pm PST #4741 of 8235
I’m responsible for my own happiness? I can’t even be responsible for my own breakfast! (Bojack Horseman)

Fixer Upper always makes me feel at peace.


Steph L. - Nov 25, 2018 1:03:09 pm PST #4742 of 8235
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Ugh. Tim's now-previous employer is so small that they don't offer COBRA, and his new employer has a 3-month probationary period before benefits kick in, so we have to find insurance coverage through the ACA. While I'm so glad the ACA exists, just the process of enrolling is so exhausting that I can't believe anyone in this fucking hellhole of a country is opposed to universal health care. And that's before I even get to the premiums, which are insane. Holy shit.

I'm just glad we only need ACA coverage for 3 months. My therapist isn't on any of the ACA plans we qualify for, so I'll have to figure that out. Meh.


meara - Nov 25, 2018 3:00:29 pm PST #4743 of 8235

Argh that sucks Steph. How small does an employer have to be to not offer Cobra? Is it like FMLA?

Though apparently my giant multinational employer has such shitty health insurance that none of the best physical therapists and none of the massage therapists at all take it.


Steph L. - Nov 25, 2018 3:49:04 pm PST #4744 of 8235
this mess was yours / now your mess is mine

Argh that sucks Steph. How small does an employer have to be to not offer Cobra? Is it like FMLA?

I think companies with fewer than 20 employees don't have to offer COBRA.