Being on a college campus all the time is kind of not helping my mental state at the moment.

Hil, I'm sending out all the supportive vibes I can.

Askye, maybe try Dr. Elsey's Cat Attract litter? [link]

With Harvey no longer able to regulatate his body temperature, I feel so guilty trying to make him get off my chest when I'm having a hot flash. Toooooooooo smothery.

I'm sorry this story is so painful for so many. Blasey Ford, and all the women who have come forward to face their abusers are heroes, and my heart breaks for them and their families. I really hope that it is changing the world. {{All of us}}

Oh dear, WindSparrow. The thought of a kitty on me during a hot flash just made me go ewwww. Be understanding, Harvey.

I try to tolerate for as long as I can because he's 20. The time is going to come when I will look back and wish I could still be holding him. And then I remember I bought the heated cat beds for a reason.

Well, a heated cat bed has the advantage of no inconvenient moving. Or breathing.

I will try the litter attract but until I can get it I got the same litter in the one mom keeps because they like that.

And then tonight penny goes to use it and she was in there a long time. And I looked and she barely peed. So I'm calling the vet tomorrow . She is eating and drinking done as far as I can tell but she was in the box several minutes and this doesn't seem good.

Hopefully I can just drop her off at the vet and pick her up.

I'm also realizing that as much as i like alone time I terrible at living alone. Trying to manage my time and do everything and recover from the day is hard and havent been getting home until 7 or after. And I have so much that needs to be done

askye, much good vibes for Penny! I hope the vet can fix her right up.

WS, you bought the heated bed to take care of Harvey, don't feel bad for taking care of yourself! A cat on your chest during a hot flash is all sweat and fur, two things that do not go well together.

I'm doing my damndest to keep my emotions separate from the news, but it's v v hard. I hurt for everyone whose trauma is being kicked awake by these misogynists everywhere now. Me, I'm not so much re-traumatized as fucking angry. I'm mostly not engaging on social media because I know I'll say something awful.

In other me news, I'm having a nice healthy breakfast of cinnamon raisin toast, peaches, and cottage cheese. Never mind that I'm having breakfast at 1pm.

I came across this somewhere on the internet a while ago. I kept it because, well ....

At which point, I wasn't just a bitch, I was the queen of all bitches, and I was going to drive my bitch army across the plains of your puny kingdom and smite everyone with my bitchy wrath, which is kind of what happens if you bottle up your very reasonable indignation at being treated poorly for five years and then one day wake up and find you're in the Fuckits.

{{Bitches}} That's all I got.

Also, I want Zen's breakfast. Yum.