It should be a no. My husband is more generous than I am - and we have let one person have an open invite - including staying over . He is one of the few people I never thought would be difficult - and he wasn't. So no is a good thing
Oh my god. What can it be? We're all doomed! Who's flying this thing!? Oh right, that would be me. Back to work.
Wash ,'Bushwhacked'
Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?
Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.
beth b - Feb 05, 2018 9:42:08 am PST #3236 of 8216
oh joy! Oh Rapture ! I have a brain!
EpicTangent - Feb 05, 2018 9:43:51 am PST #3237 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
If he wants to move to CA he needs to have more of a plan than finding a free place to stay.
THANK YOU. When he first messaged, I pointed out that his profile says LA, but I'm in SD. He just said he needs somewhere in CA while he gets settled. HUGE RED FLAGS - like, there's not even a job lined up? No sir, sorry, but I'm not down with you couchsurfing while you find yourself.
Sparky1 - Feb 05, 2018 9:53:28 am PST #3238 of 8216
Librarian Warlord
Also, Epic, don't let him use your address for job hunting.
You do not have to feel in the least bit bad! Also, "his mom told him to ask again"? In his twenties? Nope.
NoiseDesign - Feb 05, 2018 9:54:22 am PST #3239 of 8216
Our wings are not tired
Southern California is a very difficult area to get started in, so yeah, if he doesn't have a really good plan he'll get eaten alive.
Sparky1 - Feb 05, 2018 9:59:55 am PST #3240 of 8216
Librarian Warlord
On another topic altogether: About a year an a half ago a Starbucks opened in DC, right on the line to my MD town. (My hippie dippy town does not make chains welcome, thankyouverymuch.) In the past two weeks two independent local coffee shops have announced a closing.
I'm not happy, and I hardly ever drink coffee anymore.
EpicTangent - Feb 05, 2018 10:10:21 am PST #3241 of 8216
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty
That sucks, Sparky. I hate when that happens.
meara - Feb 05, 2018 10:44:36 am PST #3242 of 8216
Oh no, Sparky, which ones?? My bff no longer lives just a few blocks from the metro (they're near Fort Totten now) but still super sucky.
Sparky1 - Feb 05, 2018 10:48:15 am PST #3243 of 8216
Librarian Warlord
La Mano and Capital City Cheesecake.
Java cat - Feb 05, 2018 11:31:02 am PST #3244 of 8216
Not javachik
I got out of bed with a long list of things to do, after doing one thing in bed: Making reservations to go to Houston for an old friend's birthday. Spent much time reading Natter instead.
I often host friends or friends of friends at my house, but always as a guest, not a roommate, or Airbnb or whatever. Partly legal (it's miiiiiine is not a bad position), partly selfish/lazy. I don't have to clear out drawers or closets.
I need to do a will. My last one was ages ago. And clean out closets. And figure out if I can really do the Houston thing. Regular guest here has a pet sitting gig the exact same time. I'm annoyed though I have no right to be.
Maria - Feb 05, 2018 11:40:05 am PST #3245 of 8216
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift
Epic, stand your ground. Your house, your right to decide who can stay there.
Suzi, Lee, and -t, have a wonderful time on vacation! I'll be in Vegas the 21st-23rd.
No improvements here with the sibs or my kid. DH and I want to run away and join the circus or something.
Ugh, I'm sorry. The Keys are closer to the circus. Rum runners and merlot for everyone!