Police procedure has changed since I was little.

Wash ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Laura - Nov 17, 2017 12:50:32 pm PST #2669 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

Excellent name and idea for the blog, sj.

I did the wedding with walking down the aisle and the whole shebang 3 times! There was surely drama around somewhere, but I was a relaxed bride for the most part.

I'm sorry for what Kelly is going through here. If there is any way to convince all sides to start fresh and forget any he/she said stuff ever happened I would try for that. Being non-confrontational by nature I prefer clean slate to putting it all on the table.


sumi - Nov 17, 2017 2:00:20 pm PST #2670 of 8216
Art Crawl!!!

Love the name and subject for the blog sj.

Have no advice for Kelly - I guess anytime for this sort of reconciliation is both good and also fraught with possible traps.

I have been having a blah day. Doesn't help that it was a gray overcast day with extra cold wind and some bits of precip of some sort. Overslept, left my Nook at my counselor's office, and feeling sick of everything.


Hil R. - Nov 18, 2017 7:23:00 pm PST #2671 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I went to the doctor, and I once again have bronchitis. He gave me a bunch of prescriptions, but sent them electronically to CVS (except for the codeine cough syrup one), and the CVS pharmacy closed about ten minutes before I got there. So, I'll get the meds tomorrow.

Also, just noticed that my apartment has no hot water, so I'll have to message the landlord about that tomorrow.


meara - Nov 18, 2017 10:38:20 pm PST #2672 of 8216

Sigh. I love my friends but none of them are single anymore. Which means I end up at my friend's birthday dinner/hangout as five couples and me. Which is depressing.


sj - Nov 19, 2017 3:48:53 am PST #2673 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

I dreamt I was at a big Buffista gathering last night. I was do disappointed when I woke up.


Laura - Nov 19, 2017 4:53:50 am PST #2674 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

I dreamt I was at a big Buffista gathering last night.

I used to have social gathering dreams quite often. Sometimes random assortments of people I knew, strangers, and public figures. My dear woo~woo friend told me that some subconscious part of me really was socializing, as were the dream parts of the other attendees. Just taking a break and partying while dreaming, together. I liked that notion. I'm a pretty strong agnostic when it comes to such things, but I put it in the category of just fine with me if true.

I don't remember my dreams as often anymore, but early this morning I was in a high school situation, as a teacher or administrator. It was a series of frustrations. Didn't like it.


sj - Nov 19, 2017 5:24:49 am PST #2675 of 8216
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

That could be it, Laura. I had to cancel my plans yesterday because my pain, exhaustion, and social anxiety made it impossible to make the trek to RI, but I'm still lonely and need to socialize more.


Scrappy - Nov 19, 2017 5:32:33 am PST #2676 of 8216
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

I dreamt I was offered a job writing for a new show starring Keegan Michael Key, but we ended up passionately making out while he told me how incredible and brilliant i was. In my dream, I then remembered that he had just become engaged (high is true IRL), and I told him I could not be with him. He was very sad and we then spent a long time trying to decide whether I could still be a writer for the show even while we were madly attracted to each other. More making out ensued. It was a very pleasant dream. I haven't had such a wish-fulfillment dream in a long time.


Laura - Nov 19, 2017 5:55:11 am PST #2677 of 8216
Our wings are not tired.

Nice!


Connie Neil - Nov 19, 2017 8:21:22 am PST #2678 of 8216
brillig

I dreamed I was being held in house arrest by some shadowy government organization in an attempt to find Phil Coulson. They'd found a bunch of papers from when I was a kid, convinced I'd hidden some clue among them. I kept saying "Please don't read the Star Wars fanfic, really, I was seventeen when I wrote that, there's nothing there." In a fun twist, I really did know where Phil was and I was trying to gather information on the group before I was rescued. I was very proud of my dream self.