What'd you all order a dead guy for?

Jayne ,'The Message'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


-t - Oct 30, 2017 10:31:19 am PDT #2423 of 8216
I am a woman of various inclinations and only some of the time are they to burn everything down in frustration

I recently came to the realization that I would Have idea about Step 1 or Step 2 and need to skip right to profit.


Jessica - Oct 30, 2017 11:52:24 am PDT #2424 of 8216
And then Ortus came and said "It's Ortin' time" and they all Orted off into the sunset

I want to be retired. My parents' lifestyle is GREAT.


Amy - Oct 30, 2017 3:09:28 pm PDT #2425 of 8216
Because books.

Buffistas Inc. Our products are high-end luxury snark, virtual smiting of enemies, and wise advice.

Seriously, though, with our collective brain and creativity, it seems like there should be some kind of business we could open.

And Maria makes great points about restaurant life. It really depends what kind of restaurant it is, and what kind of hours you would be expected to keep. But it's also really hard to keep up with rising costs and staffing, etc.

::hugs Maria, just because::

I would also like to be retired, and devote my days to writing and reading, between bouts of tea drinking and cake sampling.


Hil R. - Oct 30, 2017 4:52:45 pm PDT #2426 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

I kind of feel like I'm getting too tired or in too much pain to really do my job well, but I can still do a half-assed job of it, so I'm not at the point of "I can't work anymore" and probably won't be there for years, but I definitely do feel like I'm not really doing as well at teaching as I should be or as I could be. And I'm just exhausted by the end of the day and on the weekends. I am feeling somewhat better since getting my wheelchair, though -- not quite as tired or in pain as I had been before.

I wish that tutoring was a viable career. I like working with kids one-on-one so much better than teaching in a classroom, and I know that I'm better at it, too, but even if I was able to build up a private practice with rich kids whose parents can pay a lot, that still leaves health insurance as the big question. The university health insurance is fabulous -- in the two and a half years that I've been here, they've denied exactly one claim, and it was for a topical pain relief cream that just cost me $25 out of pocket (and barely worked, anyway.)


askye - Oct 30, 2017 7:09:20 pm PDT #2427 of 8216
Thrive to spite them

I'm sorry you are struggling with the pain and also not being able to do your job as well as you like. I hope as you use the wheelchair more you see more of a difference.


askye - Oct 30, 2017 7:12:19 pm PDT #2428 of 8216
Thrive to spite them

Also I made a mistake at work and can't deal with it until ipen. I don't think it's unfixable (I did an order in store and they wanted to pick it up in store. I'd never done that before and the system is weird so I accidentally put the store address as the card billing address instead of just as the ship to address.)

But I feel like I've made a lot of careless mistakes. I'm mostly being hard on myself . I know why the problem happened, it was me doing things more by rote instead of thinking about what I was doing.


WindSparrow - Oct 30, 2017 7:37:09 pm PDT #2429 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Hil, I'm glad the wheel hair is helping (typo left in for amusement value).

askye, you are new on the job. Making mistakes is uncomfortable, but it is part of the learning process. I hope your supervisor(s) help you fix that mistake graciously.


Hil R. - Oct 31, 2017 8:51:28 am PDT #2430 of 8216
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Ugh. My landlord just stopped by to deal with something with the upstairs apartment, and I asked him to come in for a minute so that I could show him where one of my walls has a hole in it (which cannot, in any way, be considered my fault -- it's several feet above my head), and he looked around and said, "Did your organizer come yet? I guess not." Argh. There are a few things on the floor at the moment, but right now it's at the "I wasn't expecting anyone over, but I could clean this up in ten minutes" stage, not even remotely the complete disaster that it was before.


Java cat - Oct 31, 2017 9:13:07 am PDT #2431 of 8216
Not javachik

I haven't been here since about 1200 posts ago, so, hi. Caught up the last ~300. I saw msbelle's post on FB. I'm very sorry to hear about Strega, and with apologies, I'm not sure who is Strega. Laura mentioned Maria above, and I was stricken to think that it might be Maria N, and am so relieved to read the restaurant posts above.


WindSparrow - Oct 31, 2017 9:28:34 am PDT #2432 of 8216
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Thfffbpt to your landlord, Hil.

I'm afraid I don't really know Strega, either, Java cat.