A year and a half ago, I could have eviscerated him with my thoughts. Now I can barely hurt his feelings. Things used to be so much simpler.

Anya ,'Dirty Girls'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


Katerina Bee - May 16, 2017 9:18:34 am PDT #194 of 8190
Herding cats for fun

ME is such a lovely person to hang out with - I get to hear all her stories about the fun she had back in the 60s. We get to bond about being free thinking hippies in a Trumpian swamp.

DH and I like to think of ourselves as Auntie Katie & Uncle Dave, Doers of Good Deeds. Makes our karma nice. There's just something about what is freely given.

I have a mission in life to share my car anyway. I had one way before any of my friends did. That meant being the Designated Driver and packing my big Valiant with girls needing rides home. I didn't like thinking of them waiting alone at night at BART. I like to think that habit saved someone from assault.


Burrell - May 16, 2017 2:04:58 pm PDT #195 of 8190
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Lots and lots of surgery~ma for your mother, Steph


Hil R. - May 16, 2017 2:31:54 pm PDT #196 of 8190
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

Lots of surgery~ma, Steph.


WindSparrow - May 16, 2017 2:51:06 pm PDT #197 of 8190
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Katie, this sad old world is a better place for having you in it.

So, a thing happened at the staff meeting I held this morning, that I have very mixed feelings about. My boss and grandboss showed up to present me with an award for Leadership in Anti-Racism - for helping a couple of people who live at the house I'm coordinator of get comfortable with the idea of hiring a Somali person. I feel like this is small potatoes up against all the racial injustice in this world. "Congratulations! You are not a complete asshole, and you helped two other people not be assholes." On the other hand, I did do it. (I say this because a couple years ago the person who was supervisor at this house interviewed another Somali person, but ended up not hiring that person because of the negative comments from people who live there.) Yes, we are not about to hire someone the people I support do not like, but all I had to do to get them to give the interviewee a fair chance was look up stuff about the Somali culture and religion with them. Then we came up with some respectful questions to ask her. And then they were comfortable enough with her, that I hired her.


Laura - May 16, 2017 4:12:17 pm PDT #198 of 8190
Our wings are not tired.

People fear/hate what they don't know. Thank you for all you do to make this world a better place!


askye - May 16, 2017 4:33:29 pm PDT #199 of 8190
Thrive to spite them

Congrats ! That's awesome!


WindSparrow - May 16, 2017 5:01:49 pm PDT #200 of 8190
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Thank you!

I know I have only scratched the surface.


Katerina Bee - May 16, 2017 7:50:01 pm PDT #201 of 8190
Herding cats for fun

Aw, you guys.

I'll feel much better when I'm stuck in commute traffic again on Monday....

I want to ask the Somalian about living up in the mountains that source the Nile.


Scrappy - May 16, 2017 9:24:01 pm PDT #202 of 8190
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

WindSparrow, you made a positive difference and I am glad it was recognized. You can't see me, but I'm casting a VERY admiring glance in your direction.


Zenkitty - May 17, 2017 2:44:05 am PDT #203 of 8190
Every now and then, I think I might actually be a little odd.

Surgery went well but I'm in a lot of pain. Trying to distract myself until I can take another Percocet. It's not working.