See how I'm not punching him? I think I've grown.

Mal ,'Shindig'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


askye - Sep 03, 2017 5:26:00 pm PDT #1687 of 8213
Thrive to spite them

sj I was UTI free for a year , which was exciting. But I've had 2 recently ..which doesn't surprise me considering the changes that happened. I'm going to call my urologist this week and make an appointment to ask to try the low dose antibiotic again.


Burrell - Sep 04, 2017 7:40:26 am PDT #1688 of 8213
Why did Darth Vader cross the road? To get to the Dark Side!

Ugh sj, that sound pretty miserable


SuziQ - Sep 04, 2017 9:07:53 am PDT #1689 of 8213
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

Grrrrr migraine


Scrappy - Sep 04, 2017 9:40:12 am PDT #1690 of 8213
Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

Sittng in my new house, looking out into the backyard. It's going to be a great place, although right now we're in the middle of the "no furniture and sleeping on an air mattress" part of the process. We have a woodchuck living in the backyard!


Laura - Sep 04, 2017 10:26:12 am PDT #1691 of 8213
Our wings are not tired.

Does he chuck wood?

When you can please post pictures so we can picture you in your new home.

~ma as needed. Tired here. Left for the hospital at 7 AM to try and catch the person arranging the move to rehab for step-dad. My sister and I waited 5 hours before we saw her. Ah, hospitals on the holiday weekend are so efficient. Anyway, hope to spring him to rehab tomorrow.


Steph L. - Sep 05, 2017 4:50:20 am PDT #1692 of 8213
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I could use some job~ma for Tim. He's decided to look for a new job, largely because his current job is too hard on his rheumatoid arthritis. This is a very good plan for him (and a necessary one), but the looming unknown freaks me out. And his job is the one that provides health insurance for both of us, so I'm nervous about him finding another job that provides health insurance (god damn this country).

So, I guess I'm asking for job~ma that he finds a job that's not hard on him physically, and pays well and provides health insurance. That doesn't seem like a lot to ask, but MAN, do I ever get spooked by uncertainties.


sj - Sep 05, 2017 7:20:45 am PDT #1693 of 8213
"There are few hours in life more agreeable than the hour dedicated to the ceremony known as afternoon tea."

Job~ma to Tim.

Laura, continued ~ma to your stepdad and storm~ma for your family.

Yay, Scrappy. I'm loving it.

I'm feeling a little better. Mom is leaving in a bit. ltc still loves school, but boy does she come home hangry.


SuziQ - Sep 05, 2017 7:41:17 am PDT #1694 of 8213
Back tattoos of the mother is that you are absolutely right - Ame

I'm glad you are feeling better sj and it is great ltc loves school.

I'm on day 3 of a migraine though today is MUCH more tolerable than the last three days.

My current foster dog is a senior beagle named Penelope. She is a total sweetheart. Quiet, I haven't heard her bark once. She loves to snuggle, though in return she demands to be pet. But she is also happy sleeping elsewhere. She hasn't tried to dart out the front door, she knows how to sit but doesn't really respond when I call her name.

I'm enjoying having her, but she has taught me I don't want a dog with such short legs. She has to work to jump onto the couch and I can see that stairs will be an issue for her one day. But she is a total love. I hope she finds a forever home next weekend.


askye - Sep 05, 2017 8:04:23 am PDT #1695 of 8213
Thrive to spite them

job~ma to Tim.

health ~ma to Laura's step dad and storm~ma to your family.

Glad you are feeling better sj and that ltc loves school.


askye - Sep 05, 2017 8:18:09 am PDT #1696 of 8213
Thrive to spite them

I need to remind myself not to listen to certain songs while driving to therapy.

Also Mom wants to a joint therapy session . At least one so she can talk about.. I don't know what..she won't tell me. But I did have my therapist email her and she emailed back and I guess she's worried about the future and how I'll take care of myself and stuff like that. Things I know I need to worry about but I can't because I just get overwhelmed and then hide so the best I can think about right now is next year. I guess we will talk about how, yes, my emotional development and social development is sort of trapped at late adolescence/early adulthood but it's not uncommon for women with Asperger's/autism and I'm working on it.

and also my hormones are all fluxing because I have PMS. so now I'm all emotional like a man this is annoying.