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Sparky1 - Aug 17, 2017 10:56:25 am PDT #1534 of 8211
Librarian Warlord

So...I really don't want to schedule the endoscopy and colonoscopy right now. But is that stupid? I feel like his recommendation was based on a serious misunderstanding of my medical history. I'd really rather just keep taking Nexium for another couple of weeks and then reevaluate.

It's not stupid. But you should definitely call Awesome Doctor and tell him that Not Listening Gastro did not inspire confidence and before undergoing the invasive procedures he recommended you want a second opinion. Because Awesome Doc needs to know that he shouldn't send more patients to Not Listening Gastro, and also, you should not have to undergo treatment with someone who's not listening.


Dana - Aug 17, 2017 10:56:45 am PDT #1535 of 8211
I'm terrifically busy with my ennui.

Why don't you go ahead and wait the two weeks and then see how you feel? I'm onboard with not getting invasive tests if you don't need to.


Laura - Aug 17, 2017 11:01:48 am PDT #1536 of 8211
Our wings are not tired.

I have a number of Gastroenterologists as customers. Yes, some people need an endoscopy and/or colonoscopy, but they spend a huge amount of time in their practice meetings finding ways to justify them for everyone. I don't want to say don't but if it was one of my client doctors I wouldn't take his word as perfect. Also, patients know their own bodies!!


Steph L. - Aug 17, 2017 11:03:55 am PDT #1537 of 8211
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I would feel a lot more confident that the tests were necessary if I felt like he listened to me during the appointment.


NoiseDesign - Aug 17, 2017 11:12:26 am PDT #1538 of 8211
Our wings are not tired

Steph, getting a second opinion is a real thing. Ask to be seen by another doctor. If I had a big repair on something for my car I'd want to get multiple bids, I think the same thing for major repair work on my body would benefit from the same.


meara - Aug 17, 2017 11:42:01 am PDT #1539 of 8211

What everyone else said. Though I would consider the endoscopy...I'd probably think on when my last colonoscopy was and if I was due for one anyway, but definitely wouldn't prioritize that.


Steph L. - Aug 17, 2017 11:45:18 am PDT #1540 of 8211
I look more rad than Lutheranism

I haven't had a colonoscopy, because I'm only 46.


Connie Neil - Aug 17, 2017 12:05:34 pm PDT #1541 of 8211
brillig

I keep putting mine off. If I could do it and drive home by myself, I'd do it, but everyone I know works jobs with less flexibility than I do. It's hard to schedule when I don't know if I'll have a ride home. And apparently just calling a taxi is frowned up.


askye - Aug 17, 2017 1:11:50 pm PDT #1542 of 8211
Thrive to spite them

Steph I would call Awesome Doctor and editor a referral for a second gastro opinion. Explain that the Dr didn't/wouldn't grasp your medical history and you don't feel comfortable because of that.


Hil R. - Aug 17, 2017 1:13:06 pm PDT #1543 of 8211
Sometimes I think I might just move up to Vermont, open a bookstore or a vegan restaurant. Adam Schlesinger, z''l

It's not stupid. But you should definitely call Awesome Doctor and tell him that Not Listening Gastro did not inspire confidence and before undergoing the invasive procedures he recommended you want a second opinion. Because Awesome Doc needs to know that he shouldn't send more patients to Not Listening Gastro, and also, you should not have to undergo treatment with someone who's not listening.

I agree with all of this. If the meds seem to be working, and none of the other possible things are things that are totally urgent, then see if the meds keep working, and talk to the doctor you trust.