Ah, the pitter patter of tiny feet in huge combat boots. Shut up!

Mal ,'War Stories'


Spike's Bitches 49: As usual, I'm here to help you, and I... are you naked under there?

Spike-centric discussion. Lusty, lewd (only occasionally crude), risqué (and frisqué), bawdy (Oh, lawdy!), flirty ('cuz we're purty), raunchy talk inside. Caveat lector.


smonster - Jul 21, 2017 3:23:07 am PDT #1227 of 8208
We won’t stop until everyone is gay.

Steph, you certainly should. A sample size of two is twice as big as one! Maybe they will work for you. I get them at Costco.

Jilli, I'm so thrilled for you! I wish you many more painfree days.

I will say, after years of crying so much during therapy that my therapist joked about a tissue surcharge, I can now go sessions without crying at all. Clearly we each have our own journey, and i don't think I ever found the process quite so painful as some of y'all, but I have hope that it will get easier.


Steph L. - Jul 21, 2017 3:34:41 am PDT #1228 of 8208
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Jilli, that's excellent!

It just started pouring down rain here, and it's still so dark the porch light is on (it's on a light sensor, because I'm married to a mad scientist). I think that's the universe telling me to go back to bed. (However, the AMA would disagree. And I have really good iced coffee, so back to work for me.)


WindSparrow - Jul 21, 2017 5:07:01 am PDT #1229 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Guess what I did today? I am entirely pain-free for the first time in ... I don't actually remember when. I've had some level of daily headache/migraine for years. This is really weird. Fantastic, but weird.

I got goosebumps reading this, it made me so happy.


WindSparrow - Jul 21, 2017 5:10:58 am PDT #1230 of 8208
Love is stronger than death and harder than sorrow. Those who practice it are fierce like the light of stars traveling eons to pierce the night.

Emmett called tonight and we had a long, lovely hour long talk. That mostly consisted of him telling me How Cool His Sister Is. He hasn't really been around since he's been at college so he kind of missed that whole thing where she was becoming a pre-teen. But he got a full dose of her awesomeness at camp and he was really smitten.

And that knocked me over into tears of joy. Such a beautiful sibling relationship.

As I recover from the dysfunction of my own family of origin, seeing happiness in other families is so healing for me.

Happy 21st, CJ!


EpicTangent - Jul 21, 2017 6:56:11 am PDT #1231 of 8208
Why isn't everyone pelting me with JOY, dammit? - Zenkitty

Is "21 minis" 21 mini bottles of booze? Because that's AWESOME.

I win some sort of Uber-Nerd prize that I thought Lego mini figs until Steph said this, right? That's right, I thought Lego rather than booze for a 21 YEAR OLD's birthday! Let all lesser nerds bow before me!

Jilli, I'm so pleased for you! Hope this is a continuing trend.

Go alla y'all with your awesome therapizing selves! I am under the impression that I'm doing okay, pretty much, right now, so nobody disabuse me of that any time soon, m'kay?

Hugs to everyone (except those who don't want 'em). Morning, all!


Atropa - Jul 21, 2017 8:53:29 am PDT #1232 of 8208
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

Awww, Emmett. Yes, your sister is Very Cool.


Maria - Jul 21, 2017 8:58:07 am PDT #1233 of 8208
Not so nice is that I'm about to ruin a Friday morning for a bunch of people because of a series of unfortunate events and an upset foreign government. - shrift

Yay, Jilli! That's wonderful. I'm so glad you're pain free right now.

I love Emmett and Matilda's relationship. I remember how fraught it was for him at the beginning, and it's beautiful to see the evolution.

Hope the pain has subsided, Suzi. Please wish CJ a happy 21st from me!


Atropa - Jul 21, 2017 9:00:30 am PDT #1234 of 8208
The artist formerly associated with cupcakes.

I WOKE UP WITHOUT A HEADACHE!

I mean, mornings (even the late time I lurch out of bed at) are still vile, because my brain and body don't work like that, but I woke up, braced for the inevitable pain, and it wasn't there.


Steph L. - Jul 21, 2017 9:01:17 am PDT #1235 of 8208
Unusually and exceedingly peculiar and altogether quite impossible to describe

Jilli, that is so amazing! Yay!


Laura - Jul 21, 2017 9:02:08 am PDT #1236 of 8208
Our wings are not tired.

It is such a joy to read the news of a pain free Jilli! May the pain~free~ma grow and multiply!